Why don't girls like being around me?

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I don't really care about dating anymore. I just want to be left alone, but I can't even leave the house without some random person (usually a woman) finding a problem with me.

My body language is fine, I just have an intense face that some women find funny or intimidating...strong jawline, drawn in cheeks, dark eyes, strong facial hair even after shaving. The thing is, I dress normal, mind my own business, am as thin as a rail, don't stare at women or anything. They just seem to think it's so funny or pseudo-scary.

I really don't care what they think (at least when I'm at home)...most of the women that notice me aren't anything great themselves, and I've dated women, who did like the way I look, that were much better looking than they were. It just makes it so I don't even want to leave the house, at least in a crowded area.

Man, you can *definitely* tell this isn't an NT forum, as there wasn't a flood of people saying "Don't kill yourself!" or some empathetically-concerned such.

That stated, I wonder if the author has killed himself? He hasn't logged in since he last posted his suicide threat suggesting he might have carried it out, but he could be doing that on purpose to arouse a public outcry upon someone surmising that he's killed himself from the evidence of him not having logged in since his suicide threat (Or maybe he just doesn't want to come back to some place that shows little sympathy.).

You know, I was an ugly duckling growing up, and now...jeez. I mean, people tell me it's amazing what a little diet and exercise can do, but I think nature got a little carried away with this concept in my case. My boyfriend makes fun of me for staring into the mirror ocassionally, but it's not just because I'm vain. It's just hard to really believe that I'm looking at the same blob-faced, weird-looking space-case I was a decade ago. It's just unfathomable.

And I think it's okay for me to brag on myself in this case because it just illustrates that how you look in your teens does not define how you look as a mature adult. It really seriously doesn't. If you take good care of your body, you might turn out someday to be drop-dead gorgeous.

Even if you don't, though, I've learned from experience on both sides of it that it's not really your looks that count in the end. It might get your foot in the door to have a pretty face, but that's as far as it'll take you.

I can think of three major components of what it takes to get the average girl to stick with you after the first night:

1) Show her empathy. Really, show that you care about her contentment more than you care about your own. Fuss a little over whether she is comfortable. If you don't think she has enough clothes on for the weather, scold her a little and put your jacket around her. Girls love it when you mother-hen them a little.

2) They want security. Project a sense that you are capable of staying planted in one place and keeping a commitment. Show that you have a solid plan and foundation for your future.

3) And finally, be a gentleman at all times, especially on ocassions that make it difficult to behave like a gentleman.

Without that, a pretty face will get you a nice one-night stand if that's what you want.

He didn't commit suicide. I couldn't find a confirmatory result for the Google New's query "Henryville suicide".