NT girls and their not so engrossing talk!

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Everyone's an individual and not saying every NT female is like this, but gosh this annoys me!! ! I know one girl who 'sluts up' her appearance to attract guys and only goes for 'good looking' guys, but complains in an oh-woe-is-me way that she can't find any guy who isn't a dick for her.

I think you guys are just judging them really. For all you know your interests could be the stupid ones, I mean do NT's want to talk to any of you?

its not like I actually care, honestly. I put my interests ahead of other people.

That sounds kind of self-absorbed though.

being an AS male, its not like these girls are going to try and get to know us or not judge us on first impressions. there is nothing that either of us can relate to, my highly sex-driven, black and white way of thinking frightens NT women. prejudice begets prejudice. I'm surprised the majority of AS male aren't straight-up misogynists.

most of the girls I've dated were either tomboys or other AS women, and frankly, I'm tired of it. due to my abnormally potent sex drive (trait of aspergers?) I have become extremely shallow myself and only will find the girliest of girls attractive. this creates problems. humility is not my strong point, so either I have to change or NT women's culture has to change. where to now?

Look, I know 'aspies' are socially ret*d and all that, but that doesn't give an excuse to not try to act normal.

As for your last question: I have a suggestion but I'd rather not say.

acting normal is a chore in itself. look, I was diagnosed 20 years ago (I'm 29 now), legitimately by a licensed psychiatrist. you can't fake true autism. and it makes me sick that some people actually self-diagnose and use it as a crutch. its funny how females come off as the caring, sympathetic sex but often cast-off my kind of behavior as "creepy" or "abnormal". way to show you understand. retardation and autism are two COMPLETELY different things. what makes you so normal and us not? think about it, if the shoe was on the other foot and we were the majority, how would you react?

acting normal is a chore in itself.

~Too bad, learn. or be single for the rest of your life.~

look, I was diagnosed 20 years ago (I'm 29 now), legitimately by a licensed psychiatrist.

~Good for you.~

you can't fake true autism.

~When did I say that?~

and it makes me sick that some people actually self-diagnose and use it as a crutch.

~I never understood that either, why would someone willingly associate themselves with that?~

its funny how females come off as the caring, sympathetic sex but often cast-off my kind of behavior as "creepy" or "abnormal".

~Because it probably is. Getting some serious "Nice Guy" vibes off of you.~

way to show you understand. retardation and autism are two COMPLETELY different things. what makes you so normal and us not?

~Nothing, admittetly I hate everything about autism and I'd love a cure but I'm still just as "aspie" as you.~

think about it, if the shoe was on the other foot and we were the majority, how would you react?

~What my suggestion for you was. Seriously though, pity the baby who is born in that world.~

haha you actually think I'm still a nice guy? f**k that. I stopped being nice. at all. ages ago. now I just piss every girl off I see. tbh, I don't really care if I stay single, better off than having to put up with you soul-sucking leeches.

Sometimes they pretend to like you to your face then spread lies about you behind your back.
Project their own thoughts on you.

For the one who claimed that they bash women with hobbies claiming they are just making that up it's because they themselves lie about hobbies to impress people.

A "nice guy" Is someone who pretends to be a woman's friends in hopes that they'll sleep with them after they break up with their "jerk" boyfriends. They're often women-haters too.

Socially ret*d? isn't that nice.


Normal? whats normal? and why should we try to act like it?

Last edited by Freak-Z on 22 Aug 2011, 7:22 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I don't think a lot of NT people are bad its just I find it hard to understand them. And they probably find its hard to understand me because I have trouble relating to them and anxious by it. I am friends with a NT women and I think shes great.

Yet the same people that call us self absorbed are self absorbed in other ways and worship self absorbed celebrities.

NT's aren't very good role models at times. HEY BE LIKE ME! So you observe and see the gossiping, the backstabbing, the cruel behavior, bullying and obsessing about trends, superficial everything and you're just left thinking....WHAT THE HELL IS SO GREAT ABOUT YOU? New trend comes along...oh now there is a personality change and morphing to keep up with the media's trends! I have noticed feeble minded people pretending life is a freaking reality tv show and they treat people as if they are the judges on a reality tv show giving them the cut off the show. It's actually quite disturbing. Then they can't accept any fault what so ever and defend it.

Then you start to realize, there is a difference between positive self esteem and exaggerated sense of self importance.

I'd choose someone with a hobby they love over someone who has limited focus so they engage in being mean hypocrites and stuck up towards anyone that doesn't fit in with their brackets.

Sometimes NT's also make friends with the less fortunate to receive praise...like befriending autistic people as though not being a b***h or a**hole to an autistic person gives the person bragging rights and earned medal. How insulting.

Whether people like you realize it or not. Apart of being NT is not getting that you have faults and not getting that you are hypocritically bashing someone even though alot of NT's are morphing into highly engrossed individuals thanks to the internet. So, you're becoming like us

What is made fun of now becomes trendy later and the ones who insult people like us are starting to share common interests with us without them being aware.

Not my fault we act like that. Well it is my fault in my case.

Normal is a wonderful thing where you can do things that make a difference and contribute to the world instead to laying around in your parent's house doing whatever your fixation is.

If you're going to be this way, you should leave. I'm getting sick and tired of seeing your sterotypical posts.