I am the only person I know like this in real life

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Wow, a lot of strawman arguments on here....

I don't know how people managed to conclude that I'm a misogynist or even sociopath(lol)
there is nothing predatory or manipulative about learning how to interact more effectively with women, learning to understand women allows you to interact with them in a more meaningful way and there is nothing "predatory" about approaching women either, women like sex... how is seeking to perform an act that is mutually pleasurable with someone of the opposite sex predatory? I also never at any stage stated that I don't love the women I'm in multiple open relationships with, just because I'm not some insecure possessive loser who wants to restrict my own freedom and the freedom of the women I'm seeing I'm suddenly a manipulative sociopath who doesn't know true love? Since when does not subscribing to the dogmatic societal expectation of monogamy make somebody a bad person?

Also I have to laugh at the comments about alcohol and loose women. Just because a woman decides to have sex with somebody quickly and non-exclusively when she's attracted to them does not make her loose or immoral, it just means that she is more decisive, less inhibited, enjoys sex more... there are a lot of possibilities, I find the way people tend to psychoanalyze promiscuous women as having low self respect is incredibly discriminatory and misogynistic.

I am arrogant though, I have achieved something that no aspie I've ever known in real life and very few NT males manage to do. I had to change my belief systems, learn incredibly complex patterns and principles of human behavior, hone the arts of social expression and charisma and constantly expose myself to rejection after rejection while I learned to navigate this previously uncharted territory. People can say I'm a sociopath or woman hater or loser or primitive or whatever lame insult they care to throw at me, all that tells me is that they're ignorant and bigoted.

I am concerned by the fact that you had never been bullied in your life, which is a very unusual trait if one has AS.
Having a doctor's prove doesn't mean that the doctor is right.
Remember that AS is still relatively a very new found disorder, and misdiagnosis is common.

I would say that you seem more like anti-society behaviour on the cool side, rather than having the unpopular AS traits.
That's why you get a group of friends, because you are perceived as being "cool" by your friends,
instead of typical AS traits like knowledgeable, formal, or scoring good marks from exams.
I wouldn't imagine an Aspie could have so many women willing to have sex if it wasn't for lots of money.
Not even those who are good looking.
I was told that I was good looking by several males, but they never meant a lustful comment. They all later had girl friends who weren't me, I'm more like a friend.
Males gather round me for my knowledge, or to discuss about current affairs, ask me for advice, or when they want to talk about people they hate.
I wouldn't say that my social problem was too severe. Whilst I feel being the odd one out, people do gather round me, and call me out for dinner as a friend.
I think I found myself a niche in social life, rather than learning general social stuff like reading people's emotion, partying, or what.
My friends later introduced me into video gaming, which I quite enjoyed.

I won't be telling you about what will happen to your friends or women later on in life,
but I would say that you don't seem to be like an Aspie.

However, this is not entirely impossible.
I have known a few males who find another Aspie lady "cute" because of the awkward way she walks.
Somehow her physical awkwardness managed to become cute in their eyes.
But I mean A FEW males, instead of a whole bunch.

Yes

I can manipulate NTs into liking me, but chose not to. I only know I can do this, because before I found out that I have AS, I sometimes had to do it to get by.

There are plently of men out there who don't try and have sex with as many girls as possible, which explains why the average man has only 7 sexual partners in their life time. I'm sure the average man could get more than that if he wanted to.

Just took that AQ test everybody is talking about.. lol, I got a 10. two years ago I probably would have gotten a 30

this thread provokes and belittles, and is therefore not acceptable.