Would you move to be near other Aspies?

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Would you move to be near other Aspies?
Poll ended at 26 Feb 2013, 9:28 pm
Yes, I would move to be near other Aspies 24%  24%  [ 8 ]
I would move if employement was available 18%  18%  [ 6 ]
If I was already moving, I'd consider it as a factor 21%  21%  [ 7 ]
No, I see no reason to live near other Aspies 21%  21%  [ 7 ]
No, but I'm not moving anytime soon 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
Ehhhhh..... (Other/please explain below) 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
Do you have ice cream? 12%  12%  [ 4 ]
Total votes : 34

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27 Mar 2013, 12:39 pm

nessa238 wrote:
Some of the parents who attended seemed surprised I was running the group, as if someone like myself couldn't possibly be 'in charge'


That does'nt surprise me. It upsets me, that often Aspies arn't seen as "capable" of running a group, but sadly, it does'nt surprise me.

Anyway, we're moving considerably off the OP. I realize that you probably would'nt want to move to be near other Aspies, but I wonder if social groups would be a possible attraction to a particular location.


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27 Mar 2013, 12:56 pm

AgentPalpatine wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Some of the parents who attended seemed surprised I was running the group, as if someone like myself couldn't possibly be 'in charge'


That does'nt surprise me. It upsets me, that often Aspies arn't seen as "capable" of running a group, but sadly, it does'nt surprise me.

Anyway, we're moving considerably off the OP. I realize that you probably would'nt want to move to be near other Aspies, but I wonder if social groups would be a possible attraction to a particular location.


For some people no doubt, but only those who wanted to be sociable.



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30 Mar 2013, 6:50 pm

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I'm not sure if doing this over the internet is really necessary. I.e. Just because we are Aspies who met on WP doesn't necessarily make a good enough reason to move in together. Your neighbors are Aspies... So why do you need to move a great distance to build community?

I'm gay and creating communities in large cities is how we fixed our problems. Though, eventually it was spread back to smaller cities as more positive attention was directed our way. I have no proof but I would say that it had a positive affect on gay's mental health as ostracization went away. I bet social anxiety would lessen as ostracization was lost.

We need to create communities in the big cities and be less spread out. I know power isn't a focus for a lot of Aspies but to be recognized by NT society as not crazy or freaks we are going to have to display power. This is how we'd do it.

They don't allow gay marriage because of personal reasons. Who is to tell what they would do to a community of people who they think are sociopaths? Opinions change frequently in the NT community and there is no telling what they will be tomorrow.


I think, based on your third paragraph, that the above poster is advocating something along the lines of an "Aspietown" neighborhood for Aspies. Please let me know if I misunderstood your post.

I'm all for such an approach, I think a question does need to be asked if it's more important to:

A) Have a desirable location, or
B) Have a low cost of living.....

I lean towards the second concept. Just looking at our active posters on WP, we have many members who might not have the resources to get up and move to....wherever. See also the (6?) voters who indicated they would move if there was employement available. If there are areas with a lower cost of living, we might have an easier time geting Aspie-affilated employers, which in turn would make it easier to generate economies of scale and add more Aspie-desired goods and services.


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30 Mar 2013, 8:53 pm

I would do it if it was not a permenat thing where like a get away for every once in a while.



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01 Apr 2013, 4:03 am

Quinntilda wrote:
I would do it if it was not a permenat thing where like a get away for every once in a while.

Yeah, that could be interesting.


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01 Apr 2013, 8:42 am

Quinntilda wrote:
I would do it if it was not a permenat thing where like a get away for every once in a while.


Economies of scale are an issue in this situation. A time-share or seasonal vacation location would work, if you have enough Aspies to put down money. The problem is the start-up costs, and if you want ancillary services (food, cleaning, entertainment, etc.).

We do have an example of such a model in Arcosanti, but it really has'nt worked out yet. If I lived in Phoenix, I would have more detailed information on the issues that they have encountered.


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