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30 Mar 2013, 1:28 pm

Do people not understand the concept of acting on a video?

Gees perhaps it was my niche after all if I am that convincing!

Wrong forum to talk about creativity, acting and expression I guess. Then again I didn't start the conversation on that, other people did.

You don't seriously think I would walk around in public waving my arse in peoples faces do you. Holy freaking cow.

The blog you refer to is my webcam video blog for creative projects. Catch up with the damned plot for god sake.

Its a no wonder I end up tearing my hair out when talking to people.

Slow is a god damned understatement.

You silly silly silly judgmental narrow minded people.



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30 Mar 2013, 1:32 pm

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And I am not creating the drama...you lot are by going on about my video.

In most threads I quietly read most peoples replies until people start making up BS and go on the attack.

And yes you are...you are being judgmental and you are making accusations that slander a persons reputation

Ie attention seeking, sad, etc all offensive remarks by the way.

If you didn't want to stir up drama there was no need to even mention the video as what I post on an outside blog is my business. I have not linked that video on this site, I have only to other videos that I house in the same place (the same would happen if I had provided my youtube link to said videos). You did not need to go through my entire blog and bring an unrelated matter into the discussion and fixate on it because you disapprove of a video I made.

Dont you blame me for what YOU started.

You are just nitpicking and being nasty. Yes you are. You are doing the female group up thing in order to put someone else down.

You are even talking amongst yourselves about it even when the person is in the area.

You are no different to those bitchy females who congregate in groups to mock and gossip about someone they just don't like. Christ almighty, why would I want to socialise with that.

If that is all you have got to offer...stick socialising up your arse. And I mean that.

Go shopping or something and paint your nails...


Why did you post three Blog links if you didn't want people to go on there?

If there was stuff on there people aren't mean to see why give them access to it?

I think you're being a bit disingenuous there - make your mind up re whether you want people seeing this stuff
or not

I'm the very last person to be bitchy as I am usually the victim of other bitchy women myself

I was offering constructive advice re how to keep yourself safer online

The last thing on this earth I like to do is go shopping or paint my nails

I like going online, watching TV and films and reading mainly

I haven't put you down either - I've just offered advice when you said you were lonely

It sounds as you have a very critical opinion of the people you mix with though, given your opinions about
people with mental health problems/depression/those who don't talk about intellectual stuff



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30 Mar 2013, 1:35 pm

I am done here. Your lack of understanding and inability to tell the difference between freedom of expression on a blog, exploring different ways of acting etc in terms of putting on a performance on video and how a person behaves in the real world is astounding and is quite frankly not worth getting worked up over or discussing further.

I am flogging a dead horse so to speak by continuing this discussion.

If you don't understand such things, do not comment as though you know what you are talking about when you quite clearly don't. Do some research first.



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30 Mar 2013, 1:35 pm

bumble wrote:
Do people not understand the concept of acting on a video?

Gees perhaps it was my niche after all if I am that convincing!

Wrong forum to talk about creativity, acting and expression I guess. Then again I didn't start the conversation on that, other people did.

You don't seriously think I would walk around in public waving my arse in peoples faces do you. Holy freaking cow.

The blog you refer to is my webcam video blog for creative projects. Catch up with the damned plot for god sake.

Its a no wonder I end up tearing my hair out when talking to people.

Slow is a god damned understatement.

You silly silly silly judgmental narrow minded people.


Well considering I'm 'slow' I think I've got my life under better control than you



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30 Mar 2013, 1:42 pm

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I'm not suggesting you put your video down. You are not just crass but also uncouth.

I would never want to have you as a friend, so don't even go there.

I can see why you tend to attract males. But as your history suggests, you got abused by one of them at least. But by all means, carry on.

So if you want to be purposely obtuse, then very well.

And by the way, I only came across your video accidentally. I certainly won't look at it again. I tend to make mistakes and learn from them. Which is more than what you seem to do in regards to this issue.

All these people's energies, males and females, wanting to give you helpful advice, and you are just so vile and common you wouldn't get it in a million years. No, not even with your so called IQ!

And don't bother answering me, because I won't come on this thread again.


How many more times.

It is just a video and that is not how I act in the real world.

It is one video, one video...that I was experimenting with.

Good god its like talking to the intellectually challenged.


"Good god its like talking to the intellectually challenged."

What a telling comment on an Autism discussion board where some people may well have a learning disability

I think you forget your script sometimes don't you?



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30 Mar 2013, 1:48 pm

Darling I wont talk to idiots anymore who cant tell the difference between a performance art based video collection and real life.

I am done here as you don't have the capacity to understand or you would have demonstrated said capacity already. Meaning I am wasting my time.



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30 Mar 2013, 1:52 pm

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Darling I wont talk to idiots anymore who cant tell the difference between a performance art based video collection and real life.

I am done here as you don't have the capacity to understand or you would have demonstrated said capacity already. Meaning I am wasting my time.


Oh it's performance art now is it?

I'm sure you'll make the Turner Prize short list with such originality of ideas :wink:

You're right, you are wasting your time if you refuse to listen to reason and advice given in good faith



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30 Mar 2013, 1:55 pm

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It is a blog and believe me I have seen much worse posted than that!

Please for the love of god never visit a BDSM website or similar. You want to see the stuff they post there and it seeps out onto other areas of the internet. You get full on close ups of just about everything.

What is the difference between someone posting a video dancing in their underwear and someone walking around on holiday in a bikini with a thong back?


Why would you want to waste your time looking up vile websites?
I've never heard of BDSM so I don't know what that is, but it sounds like you have a fascination for that type of thing. This does you no favours in the image you give people of yourself.

The difference? The difference is that at the beach you are wearing the same thing as everyone else, everyone knows why everyone else is wearing it, despite its lack of covering it is an outer garment, designed for sunbathing and swimming. Underwear...the clue is in the name. Underwear is frequently designed to be provocative, is often flimsy and sheer, even see-through and is meant to be private! Couple that with provocative dancing...well, need I say more.


I have come across this type of exhibitionist behaviour before from people with ASDs/LDs - it can often be because the person is lonely and thinks this is an easy way to gain attention, even if it is of the wrong sort. It's as if any attention is better than none and it's a very sad thing in my opinion :(


I'm just finding it harder and harder to buy into though. With the claimed level of intelligence, there would be an intellectual reasoning going on. For instance, when my 7 year old daughter had her assessment, she was shown the social stories pictures, she found them incredibly difficult and the psychologist told me afterwards that she was making suggestions as to what could be going on, based on intellect rather than intuition (she still failed the test of course!). Even at that age she was doing this. Are you tell me a woman of almost 40 years old, with the claimed level of intellect and very verbal and expressive style and self-analysis, can be that bad at understanding and realising a few obvious things by now? I had a gut instinct about this even before you found the naughty videos and she admitted to deliberately dancing provocatively. In that respect, I believe bumble knows exactly what she is doing. The expressions in her photos give a lot away too. This innocent claim of "I make expressions and people misinterpret them" is not ringing true. None of it is now. I'm sorry bumble...feel free to explain otherwise, but I would take some convincing. You don't answer certain helpful posts, you cherry pick. You falsely accuse people of ulterior motives and victimise yourself. What is your game?

If other people confuse you...you sure as hell confuse me!


Even more sure I got it right now.

Let me state for the record bumble, I have only stated my opinion based on what you have displayed with your words. I have not 'ganged up' with any other member. What I said about you to Nessa was not behind your back (which is bitchy behaviour), but was on the thread for you to read and respond to...which unsurprisingly (based on your prior lack of response to key posts from people) you didn't.

Again, here we are with the innocent thing. "men are the only ones who are nice to me" equates to you that all females are bitchy (save for one fellow victim that you were the hero for). You know damn well why men are friendly, you even say why when you say that they seem to become romantically attracted to you (oh my, what a surprise, I can't imagine why that could be, what's a girl to do [bats eyelashes]). If they were not after something sexual from you, you would be calling them bitchy and nasty as well, because they would not be sucking up to you for sexual reasons.

BTW sunbathing in your front garden is not sexual. You draw very odd analogies.

What shall I do now...I feel like some freedom of expression...shall I dress up in a see-through negligee and go and post it online...hmmn...perhaps I should dress up like a naughty schoolgirl replete with fishnet stockings and a whip and post that instead....oh no, those mean people will judge me and think the wrong things about me...what's a girl to do... :wall:

But of course, they would all be silly, judgemental, mean, bitchy, nasty, critical, narrow-minded, have sticks up their asses, of course intellectually challenged...every last one of them.

Me? I will just be expressing myself, and there is nothing wrong with that. It's everyone else that is wrong.

That's it...I'm going....and I'm not coming back. It's final. Really. (Well, until a few minutes time when I start yet another TLDR thread where I choose to spout all sorts and ignore people who are genuinely trying to help me).


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30 Mar 2013, 1:56 pm

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bumble wrote:
Darling I wont talk to idiots anymore who cant tell the difference between a performance art based video collection and real life.

I am done here as you don't have the capacity to understand or you would have demonstrated said capacity already. Meaning I am wasting my time.


Oh it's performance art now is it?

I'm sure you'll make the Turner Prize short list with such originality of ideas :wink:


:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:


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30 Mar 2013, 2:02 pm

Funnily enough...my video of me with a snake and a banana, in my Sunday best, which was of course my natty little ensemble of a buxom milk-maid with a right pair of milk churns I can tell you....my skirt up to my nether regions...well I was paid £1,000 for it. Of course there is an interpretation that is of value here in the art world. Why I have been shortlisted for the Turner Prize....people like my stuff, it sells, it entertains...it tells a story...it's life-changing.

Read and absorb, it might help:

http://www.savvysugar.com/Psychology-Dress-22642105


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30 Mar 2013, 2:07 pm

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How many more times.

It is just a video and that is not how I act in the real world.

It is one video, one video...that I was experimenting with.

Good god its like talking to the intellectually challenged.


Even if it's just the one video it would be safer for you to take it off the blog. It will be magnetically attractive to perverts and if one of those perverts also figures out you are lonely he may seek you out and that would be bad. It's a safety issue rather than a morality issue. It's best to just stay off the radar of creeps.



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30 Mar 2013, 2:33 pm

thread locked - i don't think it is going anywhere good.

various members, that's enough with the flaming. i know you have real concerns about bumble's online safety, but she is not listening. provoking and belittling her will not make her listen to you. you were engaging in personal attacks.

bumble, if you don't want to be judged for your sexy videos, maybe don't put the link to your blog in your signature and then specifically mention your blog in the thread. members were understandably shocked by that, and they are worried about you.


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