How to live as an asperger and have a happy life ?

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I get what you mean . I really shouldn't argue with people online LOL.

Please don't stop yourself from discussing things with people. That's how people learn things.

But some people (trolls) have no desire to learn.

Blimey! have you read all my posts yet? Know thy enemy

I don't think I've ever used those words but quote me if I'm wrong.

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Yep! I know the kind of people you're talking about .

Hahahaha! Damn right I have!

Please don't make me a special interest dude , I'm not that interesting

In my case, not only I conquered it, I also overcame it.

Since you acknowledged one of my previous post: I did said I don't have a comorbidity -- at this present that is. Yet I didn't said I never had it -- I had, once upon a time. It felt like a previous life to me.
Anxiety it was, now a distant memory to me. All I could prove is that it's possible to overcome with little to no compromise.

How? Well, I'm not sure. The whole thing was gradual and tricky. I can't afford meds and therapy, nor want any support or accommodations from anyone because of it -- therefore I have no recommendations nor straight answers for it except it's something that oneself could only find out.

And if I ever encounter anxiety again, it's just a state of mind or a mere emotion instead of a condition that I have to fight through or a form of intrusion.
It rarely came to me, nor it lasts. Even rarer than the human ups and downs, but that's me as people in general varied to be more or less prone to it -- mine happened to be 'less'.



Lastly, better ask other aspies who have OCD. Or anyone else with OCD. It's not something I have, nor understood.

Doesn't work if the bullies are after you. Peace love and understanding rethoric dont work IRL.



Happened to me too. Was almost first in a taxi cue, noone did anything, then i got pissed off and started walking to him shouting "Hey you", looking at him straight in the eyes. Surprisingly, the guy only looked at me for a short time then he looked beside me, more had followed. It only takes one to initiate.

Nowadays i even have some martial arts training so if it happens again and someone attacks, i will break bones.

People suggested me too many times. Ah, if only people knew the difference between a schoolyard fight and tease from situational drama against an emotional vampire.

I solved immature bullying with violence and intimidation. You know, petty stuff that a child's cruelty would do.
I solved mature bullying with evasion and apathy. This, involves manipulative people and that stupid 'game'.

What works in mature bullying doesn't work well with solving immature bullying. And what works with immature bullying is very dangerous when applied against matured bullying.