So, starting to doubt my self-dx.

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Why am I explaining this?

In the UK you cannot see an Autism expert without a referal from your GP. You are also very unlikely to get any help or even be diagnosed if you are adult.

I emailed Sacha Baron Cohen about this once and got a very discouraging response pretty much stating the above. I tried to find that email just now but it was a few years back so I may have deleted it.

Also, I think there is some sort of black listing system in the NHS because whenever I have a health complaint I find that the first 1-2 times I see a new health practitioner they are really nice and supportive and the next time I go they act very dismissively. This happened more than once so I know it's not just an odd coincidence. However, I doubt that I would get to see it even if I paid £50 to get a copy of all my records. I must remember to ask some of my friends who work in hospital if this is true.
Do I sound too paranoid?

Yes you do sound paranoid

The one thing has nothing to do with the other.
I've the right to think that I'm Napoleon for example, but it still doesn't make it any more correct.
I'm against medicating and treating ppl against their will, just because they have another opinion than society. Because that's mind controll, eventhough if their opinion is propably incorrect. Just because everyone has the right to their own opinion, doesn't mean I've to believe it. Because also I have have the right for my own opinion, like they to them.
If I would automatically have to believe others, just because they have their right to their opinion, would mean that I wouldn't have the right to my opinion anymore. Wouldn't make much sence, would it?

Second of all, speaking about facts: about 80% of ppl who self-dx with AS and seek professional help are right having AS. I bet they who don't seek help, the number is much lower, but still if it would be the same, it would still make 20% who are incorrect. So I've to believe everyone who self-dx, also those 20%?

Third, especially over the internet - even if I wanted - I can't really proof any of those things you mentioned.

Fourth of all, I also doubt my own suspicions what I could have and couldn't have and I've at least a second opinion from the outside, because I strongly believe that we view ourselfs differently than others around us and that we have to put more than one piece together, eventhough if I might have been right in the end. I usually even get two independent psychiatric opinions until I believe the diagnosis about being right. I also always tell ppl to get a second opinion if they are not sure what their psychiatrist said and I don't think at all it's arrogant towards the psychiatrist just because you let proof that diagnosis again. Even very good experts in their fields can make a mistake. None of us is perfect and we actually should accept that as part of human nature.

So why is it arrogant if I think about others the same than I would about myself, being in the same position? Respecting other ppl doesn't mean I have to believe everything they say and dx a person with a "mental disorder" is a difficult process and even a high intelligent and well educated person might have subjective views about themselfs leading to the wrong diagnosis. Like over- or underestimating owns problems, favoring one diagnosis over the other (ppl less often dx themselfs with personality disorders or schizphrenia for example), not being able to recognise parts of the "mental disorder" (paranoia, delusions etc.) and so on.

Because I'm having a different opinion on this topic?

Just guessing...

I know that some Transsexual active right movements in my country are heavily unhappy about the mainchanges in the DSM-5 for various reasons. But well, we don't use the DSM in my country anyway.

Wrong or right people that self diagnose are looking for answers because they have problems they want to overcome or need some kind of validation for what they have experienced.

You were disagreeing with an opinion I never expressed and do not hold.

I am curious why you think the DSM-5 change is not scientific?

I never disagreed with that actually.
I was also looking for answers for a long time and sometimes still do.
This was never my point I was making.

... All I'm saying is that self-dx is not valid for various reasons and that you need at least a second opinion to be certain.

I'm sorry is I am misunderstanding what you mean to say but statements like this

sound to me like you do disagree.

"are looking for answers because they have problems they want to overcome"

Of course they do and I understand that and even do the same, but just I'm thinking I might have OCD for example, to explain my problems doesn't mean I've really OCD. But this doesn't mean that I doupt that they are looking for answers or have problems in the first place.
But does it really make sence to continue this?
Not for me.

No one is forcing you to respond, you just keep missing my point and repeating the same thing in response.

EDIT: Or maybe that me

Let me put it this way. You was a self DX is not valid. I say you have no way of knowing one way or the other without knowing the person and what their process was. Maybe it is and maybe it is not.

Yes it really does sound paranoid.

I also wanted to mention, that Simon Baron-Cohen is in the autism reseach, not Sacha.

I'm not missing your point. I know it's very often hard to understand for autistic ppl, but out of various reasons I've another opinion than you and I've explained it very long for you.
Autistic ppl very often don't understand when someone has a different opinion than they have and just explain their view over and over again thinking the other person didn't understand them right without realising that ppl have different opinions out of various reasons. Autistics on the higher end of the spectrum learned it intelectually at some point in their lifes, but not emotionally. You can teach ToM (theory of mind) just on an intelectual level, but I doubt you can teach it on an emotional level too.

Maybe one time in my life I'll have a different opinion on this topic, maybe sometime in your life you'll have a different opinion.
But no matter what I'll try to respect your opinion and I'll ask you to do the same with mine.