kraftiekortie wrote:
Please let me emphasize: I do understand that stress could cause a reduced lifespan.
That goes across the board. NT's feeling extreme stress probably would have a reduced lifespan, too.
Then I think: What role does pure stress, whether caused by autism or not, versus autism itself, play in a reduced lifespan?
Each would have to ask themselves how much of the stress they experience is autism (or co-morbid) related. Some have given examples above. As another example, much of the interpersonal stress I have experienced is related to people not understanding why I do not contact, visit, share time or activities them like others do. They often misread it as snobbishness, that I dislike them, etc, or they see it as odd/weird and I become an outsider and they directly or subtly mock me for it.
At least at first glance, for me, autism and the co-morbids I have account for a lot of the stress I have experienced, probably the lion share.