ToadOfSteel wrote:
I've been accused of being narcissist before, but like what other people have been saying, there really is no connection...
It's just based on the way the aspie speaks. If you notice the general flow of threads on WP, for example, the OP posts his opinion on the topic at hand (in the first person), then everyone else posts their opinions, sometimes forming said opinions off of another post in the thread, and sometimes providing a link to any supporting factors. However, the general item of note is that each person's post talking about "My experience in this matter...", etc. We are best capable of talking about ourselves, because we can't figure out what makes those nt's tick. But praising ourselves is a completely different matter...
I agree.
And so: (insert rant here)
My family thinks I'm narcissistic because I'm "careless"...I forget things easily because of other things going on. I'll make an appointment for something but forget to ask what my aunt or whoever is doing so she can go with me or whatever (bad example).
She's constantly reminding me to check in with whoever first and see whats going on and then mark the date. Ummm....lets see, so I have to ask off work, check with the person whos going with and then check with whomever will be at or controls the situation where I'm going.
Yeeeaaaa........... Add into that the gazillion other things that are on my mind, not to mention that my clothes are bugging the living s**t out of me, or the noises going on, or worrying about dinner or my animals or getting nice slacks to go to an interview or about wanting to rub my face or about my younger brother or sister or getting hermit crab food or my clothes bugging again or that I don't really feel like going home tonight but don't have anything else to do or the NT social problems I don't want to deal with or the fact that my roomates weird and I keep telling him to stop talking about some stuff and he wont see i guess I'll just have to keep going at it until he gets the point and then theres the fact that everything I do brings on some memory that i have to deal with yet again.
And then there's the truly AS AT traits like dealing with colors and "feelings" (as in i feel orange or whatever you are, and this person feels blue) feel like I need to count a series of these things in the room or whatever you do.
AND THEY EXPECT ME TO GROW UP AND STOP BEING CARELESS????
psychos
Anyways,
Sorry about the long posts. I'm working on trying to get them shorter; I realize i keep making really long ones so bear with me.