Did your bullies end up better off than you did?

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I have been told that the kids that bullied me in school are not doing better then me (unemployed and in trouble with the law, whereas i have a job and am not in trouble with the law).

Don't have exact details as i have not seen them since school. I don't want to see them again.

the kid that bullied me the most went to my school till year 8 then i never saw him again.

Don't know and don't care

I don't know how my bullies ended up.

Some did well, some did poorly, I suspect.

I don't think about it. That I focused on being a better man than I once was is all I care about.

I wouldn't know because I was taken out of public school to be homeschooled in fith grade. My former best friend soon began to bully me because she joined a clique (odd they stuck up for a girl who pretended she was a dog but encoraged bullying to me) and her mom thought I was a bad example. I came across her MySpace recently and at her last update she was still in high school and pregnant.

I can't say what became of the rest of my bullies because I was taken out of public school in fith grade before all the truely hurendos stuff I hear about could happen. I probably either would have gone on a shooting rampage or killed myself if I wasn't. I moved from Ohio to Texas to escape the memories and can't remember any spefic names anymore. I was bullied more by teachers than other kids and the worst one (she thought belitting me all the time would "teach" me basic common sence and was generaly quite stupid) is still teaching according to the school website.

Once I finish veternary school I plan to move overseas (South Africa to be with my meerkats) and finnaly be able to forget everything and be at peace.

I vaguely know what happened to some of the boys who bullied me; they moved on with their lives oblivious what they did to me even though I never forgot.

One boy who bullied me in high school in shop class I trapped in a corner and beat up. The next week I learned he had shot himself with a shotgun. I often feel very bad for him because he was just like me, a confused loner.

In college a boy who bullied me high school tried to bully me at the convenience store at which he worked as a clerk and I was shopping at. In great fear and trembling at the instigation of a friend I told him to stop with the disrespectful talk or I'll report him to his manager. He stopped and I never say or heard from again.

Of all the bullied who made my life hell from pre-grade school to post-college the people who troubled me most weren't the bullies themselves but the adults and others who saw and heard what was happening but did nothing. They have my enduring contempt and emnity.

If I am present somewhere and someone from a child to an adult starts to bully I interpose myself between and stop the bullying even at my own peril.

Hmmm...lets see here....

one left town, got pregnant, then got dumped by her boyfriend.

A few others are in jail or at dead end jobs or are unemployed

Another one is dead...due to him living a life of crime, then it biting him in the prosterior end.

Basically most of those who bullied me are at dead end jobs, unemployed, in jail, probably on the street, or dead.

I tased a terrorist (bully)once
I put together 2 ignition coils and
drove them with 12 volt transistors
and a 12 volt battery pack and a 20Hz
oscillator.

I made my own taser back in 1985
with those parts and when I stuck that
taser on his chest/stomach he froze
like a tree, made a groaning sound and
turned blue and fell like a cut down tree
in a logging company.

I did not even use probes/darts I just
made my own 2 pin probe and hit the nerves
just under the sternum.

I did it because he pushed me up aginst
the lockers by the neck so I reached in
my pocket and stuck it to himl.

I think he is either dead or slaving away
in some dead end job he hates.

I get to edit video and he has to slave away.

Did you get into trouble for doing that?!
Only an Aspie kid could take revenge by building their own taser... Just great!

One of the thugs who used to beat me up regularly, Tom Conroy, finally died of drinking too much and a rotten liver. When I heard about it, I rejoiced. I told him many years ago (60 or thereabouts) that he would end up as a lush just like his daddy. Fu**ing Harp!

Erin go bragh.

ruveyn

When one of my junior high bullies died, in a car crash because on of his buddies was drunk or on drugs, I thought that if I had actually drunk alcohol, I would have gotten a bottle of champagne.
The fact that this guy almost got to 30 was a miracle.

Well... most of them probably have more money than me, more friends than me, and are almost certainly doing better at living independently.

On the other hand...
I like my job. If I get bored, I can go and sit and watch trees moving in the breeze, and be very happy with it. The only things I want are books and music-related stuff. I can get books cheaply, and I have many instruments already.
And I might not have many friends, but I'm happy with that, and one of my friends is the sweetest person in the world.

I think I'll take my life over theirs. Their lives don't seem all that fantastic to me.

No thank goodness, they did call me in about
it, and I told them I did a "Vulcan Neck Pinch"
and the idiot principal belived me thank goodness.

He said "Well. lets not have much more of that
Vulcan stuff">

I said "If Jeff Wired**k keeps up his rubbish,
I will defend myself, I will not just take it,
do I need to sue?"

Principal goes quiet.

I said "If he stops terrorising me, if he quits
being a terrorist to me, then I will stop doing
Vulcan moves on him."

They sent me back to class and I only had
to tase him one more time at the end of
school b4 graduation, this time it was outside
near the buses, he phunked with me so I
tased him again and left him on the ground,
and even stepped on him as I left and spitted
on him and left.

Nobody ever knew that I had the taser,
noone ever saw it, I never showed anyone,
it was a life and death thing to me, not a neat
toy, it was a life saver.

I have a big mouth that I have no control of,
if someone terrorises me, I blurt out something
dirty about their mothers, or their face, or something
and I have no control over it onec it has been triggered.

Well, depends on what is meant by "better off." A lot of the bullies i knew were from wealthier families, and so their futures were pretty much set in stone so they could do whatever they want and mommy/daddy will bail them out. However, even though these individuals seem better off, many of them will develop issues when life, key word, becomes difficult for them the first time post-High School . . . well, things fall apart. Drugs, depression, and generally waste away into some form of slow, or immediate, suicide. They may have a better job and all, but the real world has a tendency to b17chslap people who were rotten in the past, and arrogant in the future.

I wouldnt worry about them, your life is yours now . . . life, and the economy, is tough for everyone right now.