Been here about 13 months or so. I don't know about self-diagnosted aspies or not but
(load nukes, prepare to flame)
I'm not crazy about being AS. I don't like being awkward around people, tripping over things, not getting the joke (or back in the day, the girl), drumming on many flat surfaces, etc. I'd love to be NT, but that's not going to happen.
I spent over 40 years of my life being weird/stupid, and not knowing why. It can drive you crazy, but I got lucky finding this place. I'm not trying to be cool, I'm just trying to cope with myself and my life.
So I deal with it. I come here for tips, advice, different viewpoints, etc. It's helped a lot; I can actually identify AS behavior as it's happening, sometimes even veering off before I 'do it again.
Yeah, after a while it seems like I see the same forum topic again and again, but hey, that's what happens when new people come in here. I see the same thing at other forums as well.
Since the mods are pretty silent (I've talked to one once...compared to many times at other places), then WP pretty can go any way it chooses (not sure if we have a direction; if we're all 'catlike', then try herding cats some time...
It's not as bad as it seems.