Well...
I'm forty, and I spent my teens in a sort of geek limbo where I couldn't have been hip if I tried. Then I got married and tried to be the middle-aged (at 21!) materialistic yuppie wife, which also sucked. So at age forty, I've developed a healthy disdain for mindlessly following any kind of pre-packaged template for how I should live my life, whether that's being 'hip' or anything else.
Most of my clothes are from thrift stores, and are bought with a complete disregard for what anyone thinks I 'should' be wearing at my age (or, for that matter, size). I listen to bands you've never heard of, bands everyone's heard of, and bands everyone else stopped being into ten years ago. I don't care if any of it's 'hip' or not. The important thing is 'Do I like this?' - if not, fuhgeddabout it.
I used to feel gutted when the 'cool' kids talked about me behind my back, but these days I think I've reached the stage where I can ignore it. If a clique has to put other people down to feel good about itself, I don't think there can be much going for it.
mitharatowen, the explanation for the YouTube thing, at least in the UK, is here:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/media/pda/200 ... io-youtube
The PRS likes to make out they're there to help the musician get their share, but in reality a lot of what they've done recently doesn't profit the musicians and alienates the listening public. As a musician I have big issues with the way they handle licensing and how they define a 'public performance' (playing a CD, which you have already paid for, in your workplace now requires a licence, did you know?
) Sorry, OT, rant over, but that's why, anyway.
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