Are You Female And Get Constant Unwelcomed Stalkers?

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Geezus....

BioStructure is on a Stalker thread telling a woman she is at fault for being stalked by her ex meanwhile probing for advice to get a date.

Lemmie know if it's working

My teenager would TOTALLY dig it!

"Stalker," to me, is a word thats overused. Almost as much as "honest" and "trustworthy" and "loyal" are. It no longer has a meaning to me because almost every girl I've ever met in my history has had a "stalker." Most of more then 1.

Hell, I was once accused as being a stalker because I simply asked someone out.

Another time I went to apologize to someone and she ignored me then told everyone I was stalking her (I never tried to talk to her once after that *1* attempt)

So, overall, the term is meaningless to me because everyone wants a stalker.

Maybe I have an irrational unfounded view, as I have never been there, but I don't think New Zealand has so many people with dating problems in general. Georgeous land of the beautiful people. Or maybe that's just rumor. Anyways, it seems that way. A lot of actors and such. Zena, ect.

http://www.stoppa.co.uk/acatalog/Stoppa ... ZwodVXxw6w

This is the Uks self-defence weapon, extreme effective, unless you just beat the hell out of the person who pulls the knife...

I was asked specifically not to take down other students' information because of privacy concerns. Yes, I did it anyway. Good times!

If a male did the same thing as me, then he probably wouldn't get in any trouble either. I didn't go about it all creepy-like, and the attention was wanted. I took an entire year to access this guy, build a relationship, and try to get him interested in me. He shared this information with me two weeks into the school year anyway. I think therein lies the difference. It has little to do with gender and more about how you go about pursuing someone.

I'm not sure what you think you've deferred from my past posts and all, but it seems like a bunch of assumptions that make no sense. Nice advice I gave to bio? I thought so too .
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Last edited by goomba on 26 Jan 2007, 7:45 pm, edited 1 time in total.

You are also trying to rationalize bad behavior.

No means no-PERIOD!! !! !

no does not mean-maybe
no does not mean-talk me into it

it mean ))))))))))))))NO(((((((((((((((

I wouldn't want a woman who would do something like that because you wouldn't know how she'd behave once you were in a relationship with said woman. I find it creepy.

As has been said, if it was a man doing the same thing he would be seen as a right dodgy swine. Women should not be treated any differently - after all, this is meant to be age of equality, right? Or do double standards still rule?

I'd spray him AND THEN beat the hell out of him for good measure-coz you know he's going to be swinging that knife around...might hurt somebody....

really though--I'm kinda stupid in this department. How would us dollars be spent at a website like this?

I DID spend an ungodly amount on swat rated pepper spray once-I don't remember why. If it was the carjacking or the rapist on the jogging path or all the sex felons at work noticing I don't wear a ring. Only to lose it at work.

In fact-it would be EASIER if a mans approach were just to run up and attempt rape. Then you could just dispense with the bs enact violence on them.

Yes she was a right doggy swine.

What double standards?

Do I or Do I not have the right to be left alone by someone seeking access to MY BODY, after saying no.

There are no shades of grey here.

Well since weapons are common would not put it past suit guys having anti-slash coats and stuff like that, taser is more needed as for the firearms in the USA, spray might blind him but he will still randomly shoot probably...

I dunno-what ARE the women like in the UK?

then I just seduce him in and wait for my moment....

I'm referring to the idea that when women commit acts related to sex or are sexual in nature that are morally or legally wrong they tend to be much less forcefully condemned than would be the case if a man did the same thing. I mean, where does it end? Is it alright for women to look up people's medical, criminal or other records just because they have that power?



I don't believe we were discussing that. I was discussing goomba using personal records for her own interests. Doesn't matter whether that was wanted or not, it's still wrong. Full stop.

And to answer your question: yes. Same applies for both sexes - if you've been asked and you say 'no' you should have no further trouble. Unless you obviously come back and have a rethink.

oh oh ok.. I thought you referenced the other guys complaint about that one girl who spazed on him when all he wanted to do was apologize.

As for the other stuff- access to information is 2 way. My criminal record is just as accessable. You won't find much there.

As for medical records, those to my understanding are still private-though I suspect with the way people in the world do not respect others rights they are grossly overaccessed.

By the way, the behavior of the men towards other men who are overpersuing uninterested women never seems to be in the womans favor, in my town anyways. Pat on the back and try again and all that. There is some unspoken rule that harrassment is cool, and not putting out leads to ostrisication. But it's getting better. Its also turning me into a flat out bitc*. Which may be a good thing if that is how they need to hear it.

I didn't read your last line, sorry got ahead of meself. I'll do that now and respond if it is for me.