My Parents don't trust me to go anywhere.

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18 Jul 2020, 11:21 pm

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I'm not blaming you i'm just pointed out seeing it through that lense doesn't help. They are concerned for my safety. It's not out of a need for control. It is suffoctating. They want me to stop living my life whenever I run into problems.

You may be right. But... the most dangerous form of tyranny is the one for the good of the subject. Because then, the tyrant has full approval of not only their conscience, but also of society at large.

For a comparison, consider the Coronavirus quarantines. The liberal governors implemented them allegedly for our own good, which got them full approval of the sheeple in America, including those being quarantined. Which is exactly what makes the lockdowns all the more dangerous. When in reality, their goal is to kill the economy and blame it on Trump, and to get people accustomed to pervasive government control. Which most certainly will happen if Biden wins.

Your parents are keeping you imprisoned at home, and are doing it such that even YOU think it's for your own good.

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19 Jul 2020, 1:35 am

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Somehow you are agreeing with me while ignoring everything I say. I just said they are concerned for my safety. Not that i think it's for my own good.

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19 Jul 2020, 1:42 am

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I'm fully aware of my inabilities. They are worried that I can't handle myself. See I partially fainted earlier today and now they don't want me to walk anywhere. They just want me ot stop living my life whenever I Run into difficulty. and I admit I can be unfazed by injury or things like that.[/color]

I totally get it. If I were you I would equally feel frustrated.

Another thing to worry about now is the whole mask/social distancing irresponsible people. My daughter has been told she has to wear a mask now and she is all cool about it.

There are also scenarios emanating from misunderstandings. This is something my daughter hasn't learned all the scripts for handling every scenario when a person comes up to her or she needs to ask people for directions/help. She's pretty self-sufficient outside but I am worried about her getting bullied (she is really innocent and "Pollyana" about other people) and how she will handle herself.

I don't really have any desire to go to places where i'd interact with people. And anyway they are too far to walk to and I can't drive. So that's not so much of a probelm.

Do you have parks or forest where you live?

Yes. Acadia National park isn't to far from here.

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19 Jul 2020, 2:05 am

Pieplup wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

I don't really have any desire to go to places where i'd interact with people. And anyway they are too far to walk to and I can't drive. So that's not so much of a probelm.

Do you have parks or forest where you live?

Yes. Acadia National park isn't to far from here.

I thinks it's fun using a mobile GPS walking in a park or national park exploring hiking trails.

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19 Jul 2020, 3:17 am

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

I don't really have any desire to go to places where i'd interact with people. And anyway they are too far to walk to and I can't drive. So that's not so much of a probelm.

Do you have parks or forest where you live?

Yes. Acadia National park isn't to far from here.

I thinks it's fun using a mobile GPS walking in a park or national park exploring hiking trails.

I don't have a mobile gps.

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19 Jul 2020, 3:26 am

Pieplup wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

I don't really have any desire to go to places where i'd interact with people. And anyway they are too far to walk to and I can't drive. So that's not so much of a probelm.

Do you have parks or forest where you live?

Yes. Acadia National park isn't to far from here.

I thinks it's fun using a mobile GPS walking in a park or national park exploring hiking trails.

I don't have a mobile gps.

You can ask your parents to download one, they aren't that expensive.

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19 Jul 2020, 8:43 am

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

Pieplup wrote:

I don't really have any desire to go to places where i'd interact with people. And anyway they are too far to walk to and I can't drive. So that's not so much of a probelm.

Do you have parks or forest where you live?

Yes. Acadia National park isn't to far from here.

I thinks it's fun using a mobile GPS walking in a park or national park exploring hiking trails.

I don't have a mobile gps.

You can ask your parents to download one, they aren't that expensive.

I don't have a cellphone.

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19 Jul 2020, 9:28 am

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I don't have a cellphone.

Maybe if your parents got you a cell phone they would be more comfortable giving you more freedom.

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19 Jul 2020, 10:25 am

Pieplup wrote:

Somehow you are agreeing with me while ignoring everything I say. I just said they are concerned for my safety. Not that i think it's for my own good.

"Your safety" and "your own good" is the same thing. When I say one, it includes and implies the other. Do we understand each other better now?

My parents did the same thing, actually, although their version was "for your health". Like signing me up for swim lessons during the hour my favorite TV show was on, which they knew and didn't care. I tried speaking up, but was yelled at about how I don't care about my own health. Psychologists call it "thought-terminating cliche".

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19 Jul 2020, 10:28 am

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Somehow you are agreeing with me while ignoring everything I say. I just said they are concerned for my safety. Not that i think it's for my own good.

Me saying they are concerned for my safety doesn't mean I believe that I can't do it. Once again ignoring everything I say.

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19 Jul 2020, 10:35 am

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Me saying they are concerned for my safety doesn't mean I believe that I can't do it. Once again ignoring everything I say.

I never said you believed you couldn't do it?

If anything, from what you posted, it sounds like you CAN do it reasonably well. But either way, if my writing style doesn't jive with you for whatever reason, I'll stop here.

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