Sometimes, words don't suffice, and one must act outside the commonly held realm of sanity. The pertinent...answer is, we all have a trigger, and there's a price to pay for how we act.
Thinking about it some more, I know when I'd act, and that'd be the stage at where one defines "disability" and "ability", and decides disability isn't fit for life. It's already there, but I have no sympathy for something I can't understand, but autism and disability, I can.
Perhaps this would make me a "bad" person, but if it does, it's no worse than what I'd be fighting, and in the end, we only fight ourselves.