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20 Apr 2010, 10:07 am

I am 100% prochoice. No one has the right to tell me what I have to do with my body. If/when they can remove a fertilized egg from a uterus and successfully grow it, I will change my mind. In 2005 there were something around 800,000 abortions performed. That is just in ONE year. Can you imagine the gross amount of over population if people didn't have abortions? YIKES!! !!

Personally, I would love to see stupid people sterilized before they can ever procreate. Since that isn't an option, at least we have abortion.



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20 Apr 2010, 10:17 am

MichelleRM78 wrote:
I am 100% prochoice. No one has the right to tell me what I have to do with my body. If/when they can remove a fertilized egg from a uterus and successfully grow it, I will change my mind. In 2005 there were something around 800,000 abortions performed. That is just in ONE year. Can you imagine the gross amount of over population if people didn't have abortions? YIKES!! !!

Personally, I would love to see stupid people sterilized before they can ever procreate. Since that isn't an option, at least we have abortion.


I'm not technically stupid, but you can sterilize me anyway!


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20 Apr 2010, 10:19 am

mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
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I am 100% prochoice. No one has the right to tell me what I have to do with my body. If/when they can remove a fertilized egg from a uterus and successfully grow it, I will change my mind. In 2005 there were something around 800,000 abortions performed. That is just in ONE year. Can you imagine the gross amount of over population if people didn't have abortions? YIKES!! !!

Personally, I would love to see stupid people sterilized before they can ever procreate. Since that isn't an option, at least we have abortion.


I'm not technically stupid, but you can sterilize me anyway!


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20 Apr 2010, 12:40 pm

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I think a lot of the talk of eugenic abortions is caused by people being ignorant, not understanding autism because all they see are examples portrayed by articles like the one timeisdead links to. Society needs more education and awareness, not more limits on rights.


I was so, so scared of autism when I was pregnant. And so terrified when I first started suspecting it in my son, because everything I found to read on the internet then was a nightmare. It's horrifying to me that I might have aborted him, if I had known he would be autistic.

But I don't know if education and awareness would itself stop eugenic abortions. A friend of mine has a wonderful daughter with Down Syndrome, and she mentored a pregnant couple who had found out their child would have Downs. The couple decided to have an abortion. My friend was just devastated.

Unfortunately, the truth is that having a handicapped child -- and you can argue all you want that autism is not a handicap, but from where I'm sitting AND where my son is sitting, it is -- can be very difficult. It is also worthwhile in many ways, but when that lovable child doesn't yet exist, the balance would tend to lean in the other direction.


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20 Apr 2010, 12:47 pm

MichelleRM78 wrote:
I am 100% prochoice. No one has the right to tell me what I have to do with my body. If/when they can remove a fertilized egg from a uterus and successfully grow it, I will change my mind. In 2005 there were something around 800,000 abortions performed. That is just in ONE year. Can you imagine the gross amount of over population if people didn't have abortions? YIKES!! !!

Personally, I would love to see stupid people sterilized before they can ever procreate. Since that isn't an option, at least we have abortion.
We tried it. It was called the eugenics movement, and a certain European dictator found it very inspirational.

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20 Apr 2010, 1:40 pm

willaful wrote:
Celoneth wrote:
I think a lot of the talk of eugenic abortions is caused by people being ignorant, not understanding autism because all they see are examples portrayed by articles like the one timeisdead links to. Society needs more education and awareness, not more limits on rights.


I was so, so scared of autism when I was pregnant. And so terrified when I first started suspecting it in my son, because everything I found to read on the internet then was a nightmare. It's horrifying to me that I might have aborted him, if I had known he would be autistic.

But I don't know if education and awareness would itself stop eugenic abortions. A friend of mine has a wonderful daughter with Down Syndrome, and she mentored a pregnant couple who had found out their child would have Downs. The couple decided to have an abortion. My friend was just devastated.

Unfortunately, the truth is that having a handicapped child -- and you can argue all you want that autism is not a handicap, but from where I'm sitting AND where my son is sitting, it is -- can be very difficult. It is also worthwhile in many ways, but when that lovable child doesn't yet exist, the balance would tend to lean in the other direction.


Ok, I'll do a little thought experiment and imagine I've drastically changed my mind about not wanting children...

If I knew my child would be HFA or Asperger, I would keep it for sure.

But LFA or profound LFA?

Like my brother?

No, no and no. Sorry. Never talking, never even using sign language, no skills, no self sufficiency, can't even use a TOILET?

No. Not gonna bring a poor wreck like that into the world. Way too cruel. I don't care if that makes people angry.


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20 Apr 2010, 1:50 pm

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I don't want an implant pumping out hormones.

I do plan to get surgically sterilized. At the moment, I'm single, so it isn't an issue.

And one, I don't see having an abortion as irresponsible. I think in many situations it's the most responsible thing you can do. Two, I don't care if it is 'escaping responsibility'. It is not society's place to punish a woman by forcing her to remain pregnant and give birth.



In my opinion, families should be closer knit and more supportive so that it's not the end of a woman's life if she has a baby in the middle of high school or college. She would have relatives to watch it when she goes to work ect. By that token, it must be very difficult to be single and pregnant with an unsupportive family and a boyfriend who doesn't want to take responsibility. By that I can see where you're coming from.


You can't force families to be more supportive. You can't force boyfriends/husbands/exes to be either. And, when you really look at it, you can't force women to gestate. Women have been aborting unwanted pregnancies since antiquity. As a practical matter, it's not realistic, and as an ethical matter, there is so much disagreement that legislating one group's morality to the detriment of the liberty of others is unethical in istelf, IMO.

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20 Apr 2010, 2:24 pm

I have no window into any woman's soul. If she has, in good conscience, made the decision to terminate her pregnancy, I have no standing to gainsay that decision. Similarly, where a woman who has made the choice to carry a child to term, I have no standing to gainsay.

A woman who does not want children who makes the choice not to undergo invasive surgery and prefers to rely upon contraception has made, in my view a reasoned decision. Ovaries, the fallopian tubes and the uterus are integral parts of each woman, to dispose of healthy, functioning tissue is a questionable medical decision where non-invasive therapies are available.

At the end of the day, I might have an opinion. I might choose to express that opinion. But my right to thought, belief and opinion ends when it intersects with another person's right to life, liberty and security of the person.


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20 Apr 2010, 3:15 pm

^Amen to this. I would like a hysterectomy - no periods and no chance of getting pregnant, yay! - but it, um, kind of involves cutting through your abdominal wall and your movements will be messed up for months. I do various sports and I'd rather not give them up for several months while I recover from invasive surgery.


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20 Apr 2010, 3:47 pm

mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
willaful wrote:
Celoneth wrote:
I think a lot of the talk of eugenic abortions is caused by people being ignorant, not understanding autism because all they see are examples portrayed by articles like the one timeisdead links to. Society needs more education and awareness, not more limits on rights.


I was so, so scared of autism when I was pregnant. And so terrified when I first started suspecting it in my son, because everything I found to read on the internet then was a nightmare. It's horrifying to me that I might have aborted him, if I had known he would be autistic.

But I don't know if education and awareness would itself stop eugenic abortions. A friend of mine has a wonderful daughter with Down Syndrome, and she mentored a pregnant couple who had found out their child would have Downs. The couple decided to have an abortion. My friend was just devastated.

Unfortunately, the truth is that having a handicapped child -- and you can argue all you want that autism is not a handicap, but from where I'm sitting AND where my son is sitting, it is -- can be very difficult. It is also worthwhile in many ways, but when that lovable child doesn't yet exist, the balance would tend to lean in the other direction.


Ok, I'll do a little thought experiment and imagine I've drastically changed my mind about not wanting children...

If I knew my child would be HFA or Asperger, I would keep it for sure.

But LFA or profound LFA?

Like my brother?

No, no and no. Sorry. Never talking, never even using sign language, no skills, no self sufficiency, can't even use a TOILET?

No. Not gonna bring a poor wreck like that into the world. Way too cruel. I don't care if that makes people angry.


It certainly doesn't make me angry. Life is hard enough for people with every conceivable advantage.



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20 Apr 2010, 3:54 pm

if you outlaw abortions women are gonna find some way around it.
like starbucks!

the old 4 shotz of hell aka the traveling abortionist

4 shots straight expresso
add your favorite flavor and 4 packets of the sugar in the raw.

a strict diet of that will miscarry in a few days.



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20 Apr 2010, 3:59 pm

bully_on_speed wrote:
if you outlaw abortions women are gonna find some way around it.
like starbucks!

the old 4 shotz of hell aka the traveling abortionist

4 shots straight expresso
add your favorite flavor and 4 packets of the sugar in the raw.

a strict diet of that will miscarry in a few days.


Are you being serious?

If you are, that's cool. Nice to know there's an easily available method that doesn't involve things like injecting yourself in your uterus with turpentine, or worse.


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20 Apr 2010, 4:38 pm

not sure of the time but high amounts of caffeen can cause the fetus to miscarry cause the caffeen increases blood pressure causeing the baby veins to pop
http://www.ivf1.com/caffeine-miscarriage/



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20 Apr 2010, 4:43 pm

200 mg a day is a definate increase risk for miscarriage. one 4 shot expresso is about 260mg



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20 Apr 2010, 5:04 pm

Sweet. I am already a caffeine misuser, would that mean I'd be unlikely to get pregnant in the first place?


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20 Apr 2010, 5:07 pm

oh you can still get pregnant, this miscarriage is purely a vascular issue with the fetus you will still get pregnant and stay pregnant thru the embryo stage. once the babyd heart starts to develop you will start seeing problems eventually leading to miscarriage