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19 Jan 2020, 3:41 pm

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Anybody acquainted with trusted NTs familiar with AS/HFA? Schedule a time to sit-down and speak with a trusted NT.

WP would really become helpful if we boost collaboration on what might be helpful with AS/HFA.

Collaborating with trusted NTs, and discussing experiences here on WP would allow.........WP to become increasingly helpful!!


That sounds like a possible branch operation. A portfolio of creative partners could be presented to entrepreneurs.


???What???


What did you have in mind? Attracting volunteer NT members to pick their brains?

All my boyhood heroes were inventors who recommended finding a business partner so they could focus on R&D. The basis of modern management was summed up by Peter Drucker: "Make individual strengths productive, and individual weaknesses irrelevant."
I need someone with social skills around, because my EQ is very low, and using the IQ as a substitute is both very time-consuming and ineffective. This person has to have learned to trust my judgement where it is clear to me, despite my awkward personality, and be patient with helping me navigate social situations.
TV's aspie, Sheldon Cooper, was surrounded by people who forgave his quirks and helped him socially, in order to further their mutual interests with his more focussed insight.
We would never have heard of Cray computers if not for John Rollwagen, Seymour's partner. Royce was an obscure engineer until he met Rolls, who was more inclined to brag about their cars and hobnob with Dukes.
Despite many such examples, most technical talent remains unrecognised, while business majors cast about and wind up promoting intangibles or worse. A nerd expects his work to speak for itself, but the business community does not have that kind of ear. I suggest we provide it.


The WP thread (LINK) 'Friendships - By Chance & Accident Or.....?'(8 posts as of this writing) in the 'Social Skills & Making Friends' forum might be the best place to continue discussing the potential roles of trusted NTs with whom we're acquainted.

WP might become more helpful if we reconsider the relevance (or irrelevance) of our perspectives before we post to WP; that is to help avoid further confusion, and misunderstandings ..........which again, might encourage WP to become an increasingly helpful resource!!

(LINK) viewtopic.php?t=383801



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19 Jan 2020, 5:06 pm

I'd say this forum helps me more often than hurts me overall. I won't lie, a while back (when I had my old account a couple years ago) somebody said something (not specifically to me but it still really upset me) that really hurt my feelings and had me feeling down for days after, which was a factor in me taking a break. I came back though because of all the good times I had and the nice and uplifting conversations I have had here and also being able to talk to and relate to people who are similar to me in a lot of ways. I'd say the good outweighs the bad, at least in my case.


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16 Feb 2020, 4:09 pm

WP might become more helpful if we're able to discuss what might resolve those difficult issues - instead of just expressing those difficult issues alone.

It's all too natural to discuss those difficult challenges entirely out of cynicism, discouragement, and even utter hopelessness; that is very little to no mentions as to what may possibly help resolve issues, or at least "break the ice!"

In short, it's all too easy to be disillusioned; which is sometimes reflected in the WP landscape - a self fulfilling (or self defeatist) prophecy of sorts e.g., that vicious cycle.

More often than not, we are our own worst enemies (sentiments sometimes reflected here on WP).

Anybody familiar with St. Francis's prayer, "grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can [change], and the wisdom to know the difference?" In short, the WISDOM part of St. Francis' prayer is that difficult, elusive part.

WISDOM might just get an (albeit small, yet important) boost through the "power of positive thinking" - if possible, reassess, address, seek resolution, or at least "break the ice" on those difficult challenges, issues, concerns, etc. etc. - and in the process boost that those MUCH NEEDED dynamics here on WP!



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16 Feb 2020, 4:23 pm

I've been hurt before on WP. Last spring someone created a thread complaining that they'd had enough, and when I posted asking why, she said that I was the one who made her write that thread and that I was "the first and last straw" (whatever that means), and that I ignored ONE of her replies in one of my threads, and other silly minor things like that what aren't worth hating someone over. The way she said it felt like a personal attack and it upset me, plus it was my birthday that day and it kind of ruined my whole day (although no-one here were to know it was my birthday, but still..). When I reported it to the mods they just put it down to a meltdown and she got away with it, but I still don't think it's acceptable to take it all out on one person who didn't even do anything to upset her.


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