Aimless wrote:
Yes, I don't like the phrase " have Asperger's " because it implies disease.
Neither do I.
This is one of the reasons so many people have misunderstood me in the past, because this seemed imply (to them anyway) that I could "get over" it.
It generates semantic misunderstandings.
You can't get over "it" like an illness, you just adapt as how you are.
If it's something to do with identity, it should really be "I am".
As in: "I am an individual".
I don't think I've ever "had" anything in this respect.
I've always been me though and there's not a lot I can really do about that!
Saying "have" or "had" Aspergers, I find upsetting because it's so non-sensical.
Yet people, in including those in the public eye, still continue to label themselves and others in this way

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How can you "have" something that's invisible that experts have trouble defining and measuring anyway?
It's misleading.