Teach51 wrote:
I would like to know why male aspies (it hasn't happened with my female friend) don't respond to Wattsapp messages unless I ask a question.
Also, this speed of lightning wiping of the cheek after I kiss them? No kissing on the cheek?

I don't know if I'm NT or aspie so is difficult to answer from which perspective... But I can answer the kissing the cheek part.
As a child and even sometimes as an adult I would be wiping my cheek or lips after they had been kissed.
The only times I didn't were when I had my first girlfriend.
One is lipstick. Somehow the thought of someone kissing me with lipstick used to make me want to keep wiping my face off.
The second is lips are slightly moist and kissing is highly "Close" so I can feel the slightly moist feeling on my face where I've been kissed, and it feels like my face is almost dirty? Dirty is not the word to use. Feels like germs stay if it is not wiped quickly afterwards?
However, kissing a girlfriend who one is very close to tends to be different because one starts to trust her to a point where ones mind starts thinking of her as part of you? I still sometimes used to wipe my cheek a little when she wasn't looking! Haha! Shhh!
But to get to the base of it. It is a sensory thing. A kiss can still be felt a long time after it has been kissed.
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