j0sh wrote:
I think Australia just has a much better detection and treatment system as well as socialized healthcare. In comparison, detecting special needs individuals through the education system and health system in the USA seems to be very problematic. A child of a lower income familly, going to an underfunded school, can slip through the system easily. If their issues are recognized, then they still may not receive proper treatment if treatment is required beyond the classroom setting.
Also, issues are only issues if they bother the teacher. If the stims are subtle and the child is silently ostracized and miserable, it doesn't bother anybody except the child who cries themselves to sleep every night, so who cares?
My mom said she was always surprised that my teachers didn't complain about me, but that as long as they didn't complain, she figured nothing was wrong. Even if I was lying on the floor crying, telling her I was so miserable, I couldn't take it anymore.
That couldn't be serious. My constant frustration, wanting to die in elementary school, being angry and miserable and lonely.. none of that could
possibly mean anything if my teachers didn't complain about me.