Anyone have low emotional iq but not a huge systemizer?

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I am a systemizer..because I am a male and my dad is a mega systemizer so I probably got the systemizer side from him. But not as much as most of you..I am not great at routines and I dont catagorize super well.

My emotional iq is near zero though, what does this mean?

How can I improve this? Is there any strengths to this?

I looked up aloof and there is a whole article about "how to be aloof"

so I am thinking of trying to be cool aloof...?
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Aloof

hmm it says never be petty....guess i'll need to know exactly what that is.