Do you get annoyed when people pronounce words differently?

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15 Feb 2010, 3:51 pm

What's very annoying is when people use "there" instead of "their", or "their" instead of "they're". Seriously, what the hell?


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15 Feb 2010, 5:14 pm

Yes, but only when people are directly saying it wrong. I used to correct people, but now I only do it with close friends.



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15 Feb 2010, 6:09 pm

I automatically correct people when they mispronounce a word. it is like a raging compulsion in me!
I do not like that I do it. I do it to my son, his father and also beyond the home.

I think some correction or guidance in pronunciation is actually o within the home. But I would like to do so with more gentleness and subtlety, without hurting those I care about. I tend to bark the correct pronunciation at them while they are talking and so I interrupt and see the correction as far more important than the meaning of the communication they are trying to convey to me.

Stuck on details...yet again. :?



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16 Feb 2010, 3:12 am

kara [empty] oke [slang for orchestra]- karaoke.
NOT "kare-ee-oki"

folk who do not even bother to attempt trilling their R's when saying foreign words.
[exception being folk who lack the gene for rolling their R's]- also singers who harden their R's while singing "the little drummer boy" ["bar-r-r-r-RRRummPaPahPAH-"- the rolled R's are meant to emulate drum rolls performed by the "little drummer boy"- so when they harden the R's like "eerrrr" it sounds bad]

the way many british folk deliberately butcher french words ["GEHraj" when saying "garage"]

saying "oreGONE" instead of "oregon" [many tv announcers are guilty of this]

too many others to list.



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16 Feb 2010, 10:08 am

archdude wrote:
I often get annoyed by people pronouncing words differently than I do. It doesn't bother me as much if they have a noticeably different accent than me, but if they don't it is like fingernails on a chalkboard. This happens even when I know that their pronunciation is correct and mine is wrong. If I know that their pronunciation is wrong they sound stupid; if I know mine is wrong they sound pedantic and snobbish.

I know it's irrational so I never tell anyone about it. I haven't been in therapy for awhile - just couldn't make myself keep going - but if and when I do go back, I know this is something I need to work on.


YES, FINALLY, SOMEONE ELSE THAT DOES THIS! I know exactly what's it's like. my Parents get REALLY mad at me especially if I correct their pronunciation. of course, they get mad no matter what I do so that's nothing new.

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16 Feb 2010, 10:39 am

I am annoyed by my boyfriend quite a bit... because he just keeps saying some words entirely wrong! lol.

I've gotten used to it, and he's gotten used to me correcting it every time he says it, though... but it's still really irritating.


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16 Feb 2010, 11:31 am

I hate when people pronounce the word Pædophile as Ped-o-phile. It has nothing to do with varianting accents, pronouncing it the latter way is just wrong. I mean, I''ve never heard anyone say Ped-iatrition. The æ thing is supposed to be pronouced as "ee" dammit. Like in in enclopædia.

Gawd, of all the words I could get annoyed about...


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16 Feb 2010, 10:23 pm

auntblabby wrote:
saying "oreGONE" instead of "oregon" [many tv announcers are guilty of this]


Actually, that is the correct way to say the name of the city across the rivers from where I live.... (there are two major rivers flowing through town here...)

Now, when people mispronounce the city and county I work in... It's pronounced "mun-ROE" not "MAHN-ro"



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16 Feb 2010, 11:26 pm

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I hate when people pronounce the word Pædophile as Ped-o-phile. It has nothing to do with varianting accents, pronouncing it the latter way is just wrong. I mean, I''ve never heard anyone say Ped-iatrition. The æ thing is supposed to be pronouced as "ee" dammit. Like in in enclopædia.

Gawd, of all the words I could get annoyed about...


:lol: I have to comment on this one because in North America it's spelled "pedophile" so that's how it's pronounced and I never cared enough to question the spelling or pronunciation of such a word. Since I started watching a lot of British shows, I've found that not only is it used an unusual amount of times but that "pædo" is a great-sounding insult that we could never use with our pronunciation. Thanks to Peep Show, I always hear David Mitchell's voice whenever I hear or see the word anywhere, which isn't great because it's not a funny subject, but "pee-doe" in his "Mark" voice is just hysterical to me.


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17 Feb 2010, 12:34 am

idiocratik wrote:
What's very annoying is when people use "there" instead of "their", or "their" instead of "they're". Seriously, what the hell?

It's a common mistake to make. They either write too fast or have some ADD/dylexia issues.

One word that has been peeving me at the moment is 'sangas' - IT'S SANDWICH NOT SANGAS! How does one get sangas from sandwich anyway? The english language in this country is going down the drain. :(


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17 Feb 2010, 1:12 am

SamwiseGamgee wrote:
Thanks to Peep Show, I always hear David Mitchell's voice whenever I hear or see the word anywhere, which isn't great because it's not a funny subject, but "pee-doe" in his "Mark" voice is just hysterical to me.


I concur. I'm even English, and i think David mitchell has an awesome voice.


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14 Nov 2010, 10:31 pm

I came across this in a google search. I was reading the thread agreeing with the annoying things and then I noticed it says "General Autism Discussion". Really? Do you guys know that non-autistic people get annoyed at this stuff, too? Anyway, I decided to create an account because I do have tendencies toward Asperger's. Maybe I can learn something about myself here. =)
And yes, mispronunciation of words can be very annoying.
I had a friend who would say "ephisode" instead of episode. She was a really close friend so I took some time helping her to pronounce it right. If she used the "ph" sound, she would say "ephisode". If she used the "p" sound she could only pronounce it "e-pee-sode". She otherwise could not pronounce it correctly no matter what we did. I have a hard time understanding this. I want to get it, but I can't wrap my brain around it, lol!



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14 Nov 2010, 10:37 pm

pensieve wrote:
idiocratik wrote:
What's very annoying is when people use "there" instead of "their", or "their" instead of "they're". Seriously, what the hell?

It's a common mistake to make. They either write too fast or have some ADD/dylexia issues.

One word that has been peeving me at the moment is 'sangas' - IT'S SANDWICH NOT SANGAS! How does one get sangas from sandwich anyway? The english language in this country is going down the drain. :(


I have never heard anyone say "sangas", ever. When did this start? I would punch somebody in the face if I heard them say it.
My friend's mom pronounces the word chimney - "chimley"...oh god!



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14 Nov 2010, 11:30 pm

Ebonics ran rampant in my high school. People's pronunciations weren't just different; their grammar was downright awful. Every day, I'd hear things like, "Hey, dat be mine's!" or "I can borrow yo' cackuhlatuh?" or "She in da lie-berry". I usually don't mind slight linguistic differences, but it was like they were speaking an entirely different language.



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14 Nov 2010, 11:32 pm

Yes, very much so.


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15 Nov 2010, 9:25 am

I'm not bothered so much by regionalisms, like "pin" for "pen," "worter" for "water," "pellow" for "pillow," etc. They grate slightly, though, because, c'mon, just say it properly already!

Straight up mispronunciations kill me, though. My husband had a few words that he never said correctly, until I pulled up the dictionary.com audio pronunciations for them. "Care-ICK-a-ture" for "caricature" and "per-SEVE-er" for "persevere" are two that come to mind.

I hate it when people put the emPHAsis on the wrong syLLABle. (Say it aloud and you'll get it.)

That said, I cannot, no matter how hard I try, physically say "Car-RIB-ian" for "Caribbean." I think it's wrong, and will go to my grave saying "CARE-i-BEE-an."