Imaginging horrible things happening to bullies
I have some people harassing me online at the moment on nearly every site I am on except this one. They seem to be using fake profiles, pretending to be nice and turning nasty on me all of a sudden without explanation such as blocking me for no reason when all i did was thank them for a compliment. It has gotten to the point that I don't know who is being genuine and who is not and I have a hard enough time reading stuff like that as it is. It is like they are messing with my head as I am socially isolated and use the internet to try and find friends. Not only does it get me momentarily excited that I may have found someone nice to talk to I am then disappointed and hurt by the block and then confused as to what the hell is going on as well. It's haunting me and I cant get it out of my head. I am so sick of being harassed by people I just want them to die so they will leave me alone is all.
I am sure it is someone harassing me as the profiles tend to have no photo, or a picture from google, no text etc. Also someone threatened me after an online argument (he thought my opinions were too controversial) just before this started.
It is ruining the web for me and I am no closer to finding someone to spend time with in the real world. Im so depressed over it I am struggling to function again and I was making improvements as well. I hate them i hate them i hate them.
Anyone else get so sick of bullies they want bad things to happen to them?
Barely a day goes by where I don't imagine terrible things happening to the people who bullied me.
I would do it, too. I don't feel any mercy for them. I doubt they have souls, let alone feelings, anyway. There's tons of people like them, nothing would be lost.
The law is an obstacle, but honestly, if I ever find myself cornered in life, what would I have left to lose?
No, the only thing that truly keeps them safe from paying for what they did is that there is no physically possible torture that I could inflict upon them that would equal to what they did to me. My childhood was stolen. My adolescence, ruined. I might never quite be okay. I might never be able to fully trust anyone.
Thus, seeking revenge is pointless. I'd go to all that effort, but ultimately, it could never satsify me. Not because revenge is hollow, but it is simply not possible to supply a sufficient punishment for their crimes.
I never used to think that I could hurt them as I always wanted to help people not hurt them...until I realised that some of them are indeed lacking souls...or seem to lack them anyway.
People try to make excuses for bullies but these people don't care if they ruin lives and yet society tolerates them. It should not, these are the people who should be excluded and kept in isolation away from the general population and yet they seem to dominate it.
I think death would be too easy for them...I think they should be forced to live in meager conditions in forced isolation for the rest of their life. Isn't that what they do to their victims...socially isolate them either by inciting hatred through the use of rumours and gossip or by harassing them until they person isolates themselve to escape their torture.
These people should be the ones who suffer but instead it is the innocent, the decent, the different and the kind hearted.
I hope the w*kers rot in hell (please excuse my bad language)
'w*kers.' You can do better than that.
Sorry you're having cyberbully problems. I hate people like that. They should be afflicted by demons, who terrorize them into tripping and falling onto spiky potted plants and gouging out their eyes.
I've been bullied my whole life.
My favourite recollection is from when i was 15. I had been systematically bullied for two years by most of a class that was a year younger than me, led by its smallest member.
One day he tried it on in a deserted corridor outside the staff room and I snapped and belted him hard in the face. His nose bled, he cried, teachers came out to see what was happening.
We were both summoned to the head and I stood my ground - told the head that if this boy tried it on again, he would get it again.
He never did it again, nor did his classmates.
I was proud of self.
Cyber bullies have no real power over me; they are but a few pixels on a screen. They used to have power, but I took it away from them. People only bully us cos we allow them to. The trick with bullies is to keep getting up, defying them to hit you again, fall, get up, fall, etc. Bullies feed on fear.
The Paul Newman film "Cool Hand Luke" come to mind...
Surely I can relate though it's not really online bullies as I never go to other forums (WP members are generally good people).
Although I would never physically hurt anyone (not because I don't want them to be hurt but because I wouldn't want to be in trouble with the law and also because blood and injury are gross), I surely hope really horrible things will happen to them, such as long-term painful injury/illness. People that actively try to cause distress to others are evil and they deserve the worst.
While most of my bullies were stupid sheep and some have reformed, there are three in particular that I still wish would get stricken down with a long, terminal illness. I'm a kind hearted person and a trained Medical First Responder but if I saw them bleeding on the street I would just walk by and let them die. They are the textbook definition of psychopath and will NEVER change or redeem themselves and I would have no problem killing them myself if I could get away with it with no consequences. Death would be too good for what they people put me and others through.
Yes, some people are so evil they inflict pain and suffering and are not doing it for attention, immaturity etc but because they are just hateful people with no sympathy or remorse and cannot be bargained with or reasoned with. I think all the time about how sweet painful revenge would be but sadly I am constrained by law and morality from doing anything to them.
The only time things ever got so bad for me that I was fantasizing about doing bad things to someone, it was horrible. She was mentally ill and lived in my building and would harass me every time she saw me (you can imagine how much fun that was, where I live). Screaming and raging that I was crazy, etc, ect. She really was so nuts that she went after nearly everyone though. In the end she killed herself! Yay!! !! ! I couldn't believe how fraking lucky I was. I felt really bad about her being mentally ill, but she had two kids and she would stage fights with people in front of them and I think they're way better off without her. I would never even admit to anyone ever about the things I imagined doing to her. I was getting evil, lucky for me she died!
these forums are actually suprisingly mature compared to other forums. (if you don't include me)
forums such as bodybuilding.com and 4chan are full of immature youngins, kinda like me.
Anyways, you can say anything on the internet due to being annoynomous. For instance, most people woudn't say the things to people irl that they say to others on the internet. Like i slept with ur mom or stfu noob. If anyone said that irl, they would end up with a black eye.
I would do it, too. I don't feel any mercy for them. I doubt they have souls, let alone feelings, anyway. There's tons of people like them, nothing would be lost.
The law is an obstacle, but honestly, if I ever find myself cornered in life, what would I have left to lose?
No, the only thing that truly keeps them safe from paying for what they did is that there is no physically possible torture that I could inflict upon them that would equal to what they did to me. My childhood was stolen. My adolescence, ruined. I might never quite be okay. I might never be able to fully trust anyone.
Thus, seeking revenge is pointless. I'd go to all that effort, but ultimately, it could never satsify me. Not because revenge is hollow, but it is simply not possible to supply a sufficient punishment for their crimes.
could not have said this any better.
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a dingleberry is a linty bit left over from wiping. that has far worse connotations [or is it denotations] than a mere w*ker. anyways, I just imagine my bullies getting bullied themselves. if the universe bullies them, that is even better.
I would do it, too. I don't feel any mercy for them. I doubt they have souls, let alone feelings, anyway. There's tons of people like them, nothing would be lost.
The law is an obstacle, but honestly, if I ever find myself cornered in life, what would I have left to lose?
No, the only thing that truly keeps them safe from paying for what they did is that there is no physically possible torture that I could inflict upon them that would equal to what they did to me. My childhood was stolen. My adolescence, ruined. I might never quite be okay. I might never be able to fully trust anyone.
Thus, seeking revenge is pointless. I'd go to all that effort, but ultimately, it could never satsify me. Not because revenge is hollow, but it is simply not possible to supply a sufficient punishment for their crimes.
i feel the same way exactly, but not about online bullies, because they cant do much. i mean bullies in real life, and it has to be something real bad. as a child, the grownups jumped the line in the grocery store each and every time. they stood behind me, but went above my head, and if i said something, they would yell "shut up, i'm older than you are." and act menacing. i was afraid, so i stayed for an hour in the grocery store, and then when everyone was gone, the b***h behind the counter would give me a look even i could read, 'i could kill you.' and turned her back and made me wait some more.
there were a millions other things, of course, but i wont even get into them because it's too long a list. we aspies get bullied constantly. yes, those people dont have a soul, they're not human, and from watching feral cats and dogs, i can safely say they usually act much better.
but what you have to remember is, yes, they have bullies online, but there are genuine people who wont bully you. if you want a friend, you can probably find one here. it's easy. and dont let one or two people who bully you chase you off the forum! assuming it will happen. if someone bullies you, block that person and keep talking to the people you feel comfortable with. dont let a few bad experiences stop you from finding a friend online.
where you bullied in aspie forums or nt? i do believe bullying probably happens much less in aspie forums.
