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ShadesOfMe
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26 Mar 2006, 3:51 pm

Me and my friend are in a strage situation. there is a boy. I knew him in the past as a mean bad boy, and he got suspended last year w/ my friends cousin. anyway, a few months ago he started playing a starnge game with us. he started checking out my friend. and he gave her a candy heart with the words "my girl" a few days before valentines day, and she didn't get he was asking her out. anyway the creepy looks continued. and my friend now denies it, but she has a crush on him. but on my myspace he is now leaving comments and stuff and asked to be in my top 8 (I reluctantly added him) some comments include: 1. "I think ur hotstuff 2 . on my pictures he posted a comment "f**k baby u look FINE!! !! !" (he keeps calling me baby)

3. "get some more pixs u look good maybe some extra fine one *boner* yeah well write back okay?

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He's starting to creep me out....what do I do? I called my friend who was sick. I didn't know what to do and she was sickened (bad pun she was sick...and she was sickened...) and I dunno. I don't want to reopt him or anything.



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26 Mar 2006, 4:48 pm

If you ask him to leave you alone and he does not then tell the police.



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26 Mar 2006, 4:49 pm

I don't know if it's THAT bad but it's getting creepy and weird.



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26 Mar 2006, 4:51 pm

If you tell him to be more respectfull that might help with the creepy terminology.



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26 Mar 2006, 4:52 pm

I'll try that.



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26 Mar 2006, 4:53 pm

tell him you would prefer him not to leave lewd comments



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26 Mar 2006, 4:53 pm

ok.



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26 Mar 2006, 5:04 pm

I privately messaged him, asked him why he does it, and told him that it makes me unconmfortable and if he tones it down we'll be cool. I haven't recieved a response yet. he's not on.



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26 Mar 2006, 5:08 pm

I think its sexual harasment.



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26 Mar 2006, 5:20 pm

I agree with ILikedragons, but I talked to him and if it doesn't stop I'll block him.



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28 Mar 2006, 11:14 pm

so we've basically been talking politely. but, yesterday he gave me a comment with a really confusing thing i thought was a popup at first. it had giant roses and said do you want to date me? and then when I clicked no it had this weird thing that asked me to put a code in so I figured it was a popup and deleted it. so today we were talking and stuff, and then he sent me a message saying he was going to "pop a boner" and then he checked to see my answer and realised I deleted it and got mad. so I told him I just wanted to be friends. I'm so confused. and I thought he liked my friend and now this! and I'm not ready for dating anyone and not him and I think he might be playing.



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29 Mar 2006, 9:46 pm

He sounds like he asperger syndrome. How is that he does relize dating is hard and the female typically want s to move slow. Those comments should be saved for when you are dating. There is only limited chance it would work. It worked for my brother's girlfriend she has playboy bunnies on her myspace. She make sexual comments too me saying basically that she is aroused by me. That is so arrogant cause I am the one with the physicall fit body that belongs in magazine. She humps me on my back too. I am I not supposed to know such things cause I have aspergers hell no I mysterioulsy had them. I guess I just observed. A m I right?



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29 Mar 2006, 9:48 pm

Asperger bully damn that ignorant.



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29 Mar 2006, 11:39 pm

either that or he guininly likes me. now he's saying there is another guy involved and he knows who he is, and thats where we left off. *sigh* this is so darn confusing for me. oh well. and wait what do you mean your not supossed to knwo such things because you have aspergers??? rewind! explain!



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30 Mar 2006, 4:04 am

I don't know, least he is not stalking you.

I knew one lady that was stalked once, not online. He went to jail.



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30 Mar 2006, 7:54 am

I have being seeing it alot that I am a unique case of aspergers my social skills are nt. I am frusturated cause I can;t do anything with them cause I get nervous. Some is going to punch but that is the way it is. It aslo appears I am smarter than some nt also. On top of that do you think I am correct?