zeldapsychology wrote:
This is one of the hardest traits to deal with!

I mention to mom I called my brother in-law on his cell then hung up (thinking he was at home) got the answering machine) then called his cell and wished him a happy birthday. I before said I wished him a happy birthday then discussed what I did (the phone calls) before I said happy birthday.

Mom SAID you said it 3 times already OK YOU SAID HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO HIM! I feel so bad doing this!

It annoys my parents and upsets me that I do it and upset them.

WHY do we on the Autism spectrum do this? Obviously some brain mechanic but what/how/why?

I know others do it so it's comforting to know I'm not the only one but it's annoying sometimes and sometimes dad does it back just to moch me.

Damn Zelda your family has no patience do they?
Wishing someone a Happy Birthday three times is not rude- maybe over doing it, but there is nothing wrong with that. The person you were talking to probably didn't mind! You cant help it, and your parents are grownups. They need to deal with it like grownups are expected to do. They have annoying habits too, I don't even have to know them to know that. Everyone does annoying stuff. What do they expect?