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zeldapsychology
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24 Apr 2010, 10:09 am

This is one of the hardest traits to deal with! :-( I mention to mom I called my brother in-law on his cell then hung up (thinking he was at home) got the answering machine) then called his cell and wished him a happy birthday. I before said I wished him a happy birthday then discussed what I did (the phone calls) before I said happy birthday. :-( Mom SAID you said it 3 times already OK YOU SAID HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO HIM! I feel so bad doing this! :-( It annoys my parents and upsets me that I do it and upset them. :-( WHY do we on the Autism spectrum do this? Obviously some brain mechanic but what/how/why? :-( I know others do it so it's comforting to know I'm not the only one but it's annoying sometimes and sometimes dad does it back just to moch me. :-(



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24 Apr 2010, 11:06 am

I repeat back what people say sometimes and also repeat what Ive said several times often. Its odd like something has got stuck, like a scratch on a CD. It annoys everyone who witnesses me doing this. My kids think its cute but my bf gets irritated when I keep saying the same sentance and he has answered it already. It makes me feel very embarrassed and cross with myself when I do this, it seems such a foolish thing to do.



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24 Apr 2010, 12:24 pm

I do that a lot, at well. I also used to repeat what the other kids said, when I was a kid, and my peers would say that I had a serious problem, because I did that. It made me feel like crying, inside.


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24 Apr 2010, 12:51 pm

I have palilalia, where I repeat myself. I'll say something, and then silently mouth the words a second time. It's like my mouth won't stop moving even after the words are done coming out. I didn't realize that I did this until my brother pointed it out one day. Ever since then, I've made a conscious effort to catch myself doing it and stop. But that can be tricky sometimes.



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24 Apr 2010, 1:10 pm

IdahoRose wrote:
I have palilalia, where I repeat myself. I'll say something, and then silently mouth the words a second time. It's like my mouth won't stop moving even after the words are done coming out. I didn't realize that I did this until my brother pointed it out one day. Ever since then, I've made a conscious effort to catch myself doing it and stop. But that can be tricky sometimes.



Ya I have Palialia too. (That's what I meant sorry I get them confused.) :-( LOL! It's good you are trying to make a conscious effort to fix it. :-)



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24 Apr 2010, 1:13 pm

I have the similar problem where I repeat what I say in my head or out loud if I am alone. Sometimes, I'll think something and then think it again, because I have a bad short term memory: I will respond a second time to the stimulus that started my stream of consciousness when I lose my train of thought.



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24 Apr 2010, 1:17 pm

zeldapsychology wrote:
This is one of the hardest traits to deal with! :-( I mention to mom I called my brother in-law on his cell then hung up (thinking he was at home) got the answering machine) then called his cell and wished him a happy birthday. I before said I wished him a happy birthday then discussed what I did (the phone calls) before I said happy birthday. :-( Mom SAID you said it 3 times already OK YOU SAID HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO HIM! I feel so bad doing this! :-( It annoys my parents and upsets me that I do it and upset them. :-( WHY do we on the Autism spectrum do this? Obviously some brain mechanic but what/how/why? :-( I know others do it so it's comforting to know I'm not the only one but it's annoying sometimes and sometimes dad does it back just to moch me. :-(


Damn Zelda your family has no patience do they?
Wishing someone a Happy Birthday three times is not rude- maybe over doing it, but there is nothing wrong with that. The person you were talking to probably didn't mind! You cant help it, and your parents are grownups. They need to deal with it like grownups are expected to do. They have annoying habits too, I don't even have to know them to know that. Everyone does annoying stuff. What do they expect?



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24 Apr 2010, 1:24 pm

I've never had this problem but since many of you feel so compelled to do it, perhaps it is an issue with frontostriatal circuitry.



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24 Apr 2010, 1:47 pm

I do repeat stuff in my head over and over. I didn't realize there was a name for it. I can't think of a time I did this out loud so I guess I only annoy myself.



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24 Apr 2010, 5:02 pm

I used to have really bad echolalia as a child, I would always repeat everything that people would say - when I started speaking anyway, which was a long while. I think it was because I couldn't really process sentences properly, it would take so long for me to process a sentence that I would miss a bunch of sentences before I would listen again. I think maybe the echolalia was a way to help me process before. I think my mom realized that I was very good at parroting, and she believed that if I was in a "normal" environment that I would start imitating them, which actually did happen at the end. It was tricky though.