LipstickKiller wrote:
I feel generally vulnerable having so few friends. I do need people to talk to and see on a regular basis. if there were more of them I wouldn't be so dependent.
I've been very lucky recently in that way. I happened to fall into 2 or 3 significant friendships all around the same time, and I'm sure it's helped me to balance my feelings for them and keep it all finite. I seem able to just about get my brain round the complications that number of people brings into my life - any more and I'd be out of my depth.
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But I really can't handle too many people at the same time, it stresses me out. I wish I had the personality of a hermit, instead of needing friends and affection but at the same time getting very anxious around it.
The "can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em" syndrome, I guess. But maybe if you balance up the one friendship with just one more, that might be some kind of happy medium between loneliness and social anxiety?