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21 Sep 2010, 1:55 pm

I can't believe this has happened but I met this person at college and as far as I know, I'm already feeling like there is definitely a huge connection there.

She likes what I pretty much like, we both have this nature side of us which is pretty much like what I do IRL.

For some reason, she seems to have fascinated me somehow and we spend our break yesterday talking about a whole load of stuff and that's when I found out she went through the same thing what I was going through.

She definitely seems to be treating me even better than before when I then told her about autism.
I don't know, but it just brought a smile to her face?

But I don't seem to understand one thing, why do I seem to more than like her?


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21 Sep 2010, 2:17 pm

:lol: Don't even try to understand it. Just run with it. This is the kind of thing you can't just break down into logical arguments. Logic's got nothing to do with this. :wink:


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21 Sep 2010, 2:51 pm

^^ THAT.

Stop analyzing, breaking down into pieces, and debating in your head.

Enjoy!

Tell her she looks/smells nice. Leave it at that and let her think about it. She'll figure it out.

Then ask her out. ;)



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21 Sep 2010, 2:53 pm

I agree with both ^^. Embrace it. :)


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21 Sep 2010, 2:58 pm

Because you're a college-aged male and shot full of testosterone?

Go for it!


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22 Sep 2010, 6:20 am

:heart:


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22 Sep 2010, 6:27 am

superboyian wrote:

But I don't seem to understand one thing, why do I seem to more than like her?


She reminds you of your mother?



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22 Sep 2010, 7:20 am

Surfman wrote:
superboyian wrote:

But I don't seem to understand one thing, why do I seem to more than like her?


She reminds you of your mother?


No, she definitely reminds me of me, in so many ways. Possibily the awkwardness and the nature in our personality?


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22 Sep 2010, 8:06 am

Chemistry is what it is...sometimes its beyond logic.

I sometimes see a bigger hand in many things :wink:

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22 Sep 2010, 9:05 am

Roll with it!


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22 Sep 2010, 9:28 am

Good luck! :)



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22 Sep 2010, 12:38 pm

superboyian wrote:
Surfman wrote:
superboyian wrote:

But I don't seem to understand one thing, why do I seem to more than like her?


She reminds you of your mother?


No, she definitely reminds me of me, in so many ways. Possibily the awkwardness and the nature in our personality?


That's how my bf and I found common ground--along with the fact that we both like STAR TREK: TNG. :D


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22 Sep 2010, 3:29 pm

Update: I wonder what she wants to talk to me about tomorrow? Apparently she wanted to tell me alone 1 to 1 and I'm actually a little nervous and she told me it was like a good thing and I would find this useful but I don't get what she means by that?


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22 Sep 2010, 5:43 pm

She's made it clear that she likes you. It can't be anything bad--just go with it. :D


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22 Sep 2010, 6:55 pm

That's really exciting! Have fun!



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22 Sep 2010, 6:58 pm

Quit analyzing the situation and just go with it. She likes you and that's all that matters. Keep talking, be a gentleman, compliment her and she will be yours.


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