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10 Sep 2010, 4:11 am

Post yours. The last goof of mine happened to me a couple of days ago. My mom got a phone call from her workmate, asking her if some person whose obituary she had seen was their other workmate's mother in law. My mother answered sincerely that she had no idea if the deceased woman was their friend's mother in law indeed and told her she'd ask our neighbor (who before she retired, was mom's supervisor at work) about this and would phone back, to which I answered that her curious friend could as well just phone this other woman as for whom she suspected that she just lost her mother in law to ask about this. My mother was angry that I could hit upon such a dumb idea, she told me I had no idea what is appropriate and what is not and it was which certainly wasn't appropriate at all.



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10 Sep 2010, 4:16 am

...what do you mean by faux pas? D: Sorry, I just don't really understand that. >_<


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10 Sep 2010, 4:23 am

Oh... XD lol

There has been a one time I remember my mom getting mad at me for something I said before. She thought it was impolite but to me it didn't seem that way. It made feel a bit insecure too. It doesn't happen to me often though since unless I'm around close friends, people with autism, or my parents... then I'm actually mute. D:


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10 Sep 2010, 6:00 am

Oh, yesterday.

Someone on Facebook wrote a status which said 'Got honked at six times on the way to the hairdressers -so glad to be getting rid of this blonde!'

I misunderstood this and wrote 'Were they honking because your hair looked silly?'

My flat mate saw what I had written and said "You can't write that!" . . . so I deleted it, but she might have read it before I deleted it.

I still don't see why having blonde hair would make people honk car horns at you, unless they meant that you looked silly.


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10 Sep 2010, 12:10 pm

Poppycocteau wrote:
Oh, yesterday.

Someone on Facebook wrote a status which said 'Got honked at six times on the way to the hairdressers -so glad to be getting rid of this blonde!'

I misunderstood this and wrote 'Were they honking because your hair looked silly?'

My flat mate saw what I had written and said "You can't write that!" . . . so I deleted it, but she might have read it before I deleted it.

I still don't see why having blonde hair would make people honk car horns at you, unless they meant that you looked silly.


I think she was saying that blond hair made her look hot (attractive), and dudes were honking at her hotness. Six just on the way somewhere... sounds like an exaggeration/bragging.

You should have left your reply. Then she could explain what she was really trying to say. :-)



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10 Sep 2010, 1:14 pm

I have just woken, but I'm sure my latest embarrassment is not far away.



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10 Sep 2010, 1:45 pm

Poppycocteau wrote:
Oh, yesterday.

Someone on Facebook wrote a status which said 'Got honked at six times on the way to the hairdressers -so glad to be getting rid of this blonde!'

I misunderstood this and wrote 'Were they honking because your hair looked silly?'

My flat mate saw what I had written and said "You can't write that!" . . . so I deleted it, but she might have read it before I deleted it.

I still don't see why having blonde hair would make people honk car horns at you, unless they meant that you looked silly.

I read it as some crazy blonde driver was honking at her, so she couldn't wait to get to her destination which is the hairdressers. If this interpretation held true, she was probably getting honked at for accessing facebook while driving.



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10 Sep 2010, 2:17 pm

That'd be the meeting I was at earlier today, then. I tried to make points instead of just sitting there and listening. It didn't work too well. :(

(It was a "this is your future in IT, sucker" type meeting. I left muttering "eat your heart out, Gary McKinnon.") :)


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10 Sep 2010, 2:17 pm

j0sh wrote:
I think she was saying that blond hair made her look hot (attractive), and dudes were honking at her hotness. Six just on the way somewhere... sounds like an exaggeration/bragging.

You should have left your reply. Then she could explain what she was really trying to say.


Well, that would be why it didn't make sense to me as she doesn't look attractive - in fact she looks silly because her hair is really light blonde and her face is all pink . . .


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10 Sep 2010, 3:52 pm

Poppycocteau wrote:
j0sh wrote:
I think she was saying that blond hair made her look hot (attractive), and dudes were honking at her hotness. Six just on the way somewhere... sounds like an exaggeration/bragging.

You should have left your reply. Then she could explain what she was really trying to say.


Well, that would be why it didn't make sense to me as she doesn't look attractive - in fact she looks silly because her hair is really light blonde and her face is all pink . . .


Maybe my interpretation was wrong. It's very possible, because that happens a LOT. :lol:



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10 Sep 2010, 4:29 pm

When I was last in an over talkative manic phase, telling everybody in sight everything going through my mind, at a rate of knots, regardless of whether they were interested, whether what I was saying was appropriate. Nobody wants to hear about my bowel movements, least of all in polysyllabic diatribes that last several paragraphs without a full stop.

I remember one awful moment when I was telling another singer in a fundraiser for the choir all about my bladder weaknesses, and I knew in my head that I should stop... but I just COULDN'T.



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10 Sep 2010, 4:41 pm

Ehh... I interrupted people about a dozen times today. Not very interesting, but my most common error. I simply forget to wait my turn.


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11 Sep 2010, 6:59 am

I agree with the interpretation from j0sh. She was bragging and also fishing for compliments. Your initial response was funny though!



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11 Sep 2010, 11:24 am

I agree, your response to the blonde thing was great. :lol:

My latest faux pas... well, I am only 110 pounds and my sister is about 135. I had a baby 3 months ago and I wore regular jeans during my pregnancy, just a bigger size. My sister was here visiting from out of state and I can't fit those jeans anymore - but they are my sisters size. So, I took them to my sister and said, "Hey, you want these jeans? I wore them during my pregnancy." Now, to me this sounded fine but apparently my brother-in-law (sisters husband - who was also in the room) got all offended by it. :roll: He started accusing me of calling her fat & saying my sister should smack me for what I said. I told him, "No, I was stating a fact. If I was calling her fat, I would have said, 'Hey, fatty! Want these fat pants, you fatty mcfatster?'" :evil:



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11 Sep 2010, 11:28 am

Huge one. I thought a girl had been indicating some reciprocity in romantic interest, but apparently she thought she was shutting me down. But she has some Aspy traits, too, so it might've been mutual social ineptitude at work.