madbirdgirl wrote:
Does anyone know where I can find a guide to disdainful/disrespectful behavior?
This link talks about respect
http://www.emotionalcompetency.com/respect.htm and has an interesting paragraph on symmetry, which is where some people with autistic traits can trip up.
There is a lot in documents like school and workplace policies on equality / diversity / harassment that define extremes of disrespectful behaviour, for example there is a 12-page leaflet here
http://www.acas.gov.uk/index.aspx?articleid=797
Religious organisations that try to foster an ethos of mutual respect also describe respectful and disrespectful behaviour.