PangeLingua wrote:
Maolcolm wrote:
GaijinRanger wrote:
I don't know if I'm affected by this or not. I'll try to shed some light on the situation with an example.
Doing the dishes is the best way to work me into a mental breakdown. Especially when there are alot of them.
Doing the dishes is hard because I have to:
- Remove the dishes from the sink(s)
- Rinse gunk out of the sink
- Clear a space for the dishes to dry
- Load the utensils and plates into the sink
- Make sure the water temperature won't scald my hands
- Fill the sink with water
- Add soap
And that's before anything is even accomplished. Usually by this point I'm curled up on the floor and hyperventilating. I really hate this aspect of myself. I honestly don't know why it's so hard to get through it sometimes.
Sounds like you are very definitely affected to me. As I understand it, "normal" Executive Function would allow this process to be pretty much on autopilot by now and the planning and execution of this task easy and instinctive. People generally wash dishes without thinking. For you, me and many others like us it never reaches that stage. It's always a confusing list of elements which are hard to get in order and carry out correctly. It's an ordeal.
Just out of curiosity, how often do you wash the dishes?
Personally, I don't have this much trouble washing dishes. I do have a very rigid routine for washing dishes and I always wash them in the exact same order and stack them exactly the same way in the rack. I wear gloves so that the water doesn't hurt my hands and so I don't get a rash from the soap. If I were suddenly to be confronted with different dishes or a different dish rack, I would probably have trouble and confusion as to what order to do things.
I have a rigid routine for doing the dishes too. It's tougher when I can't stick to that routine.
I don't wash the dishes all that often. But really, can you blame me?
I've also had a look at how well I can do math in contrast to how well I can do in english. I think a lot of my math troubles arise from things affected by Executive Dysfunction; it might be doubly harder for me to do because math relies on putting data through a series of steps and formulas to reach a 'solution', where as english has less steps involved and is more of a 'formula' in itself. Does any of this make sense?