people will stare at anything that diverges from the norm; behavior,the way someone stands/walks/lacks or gives eye contact,the things they carry with them the clothes they wear etc ,there is no way to stop other people staring but we can have control over ourselves; the best way is to practice not giving a damn, so the staring loses its power rather than avoiding the problem as that supposedly gives a impresion the person is shy,trying to hide themselves and avoid conflict, scallies/chavs/bullies/pyschopaths etc and even cops and other services who use profiling jump all over this vulnerability.
a lot of people dont mean anything by the stare they just do it because evolution taught them to be that way,to be weary of the unusual.
-if feeling stressed whilst starting out in public again try learning basic deep breathing exercise and making use of it when out;
http://ptsd.about.com/od/selfhelp/ht/breathing2.htm
ignore the fact its in the PTSD section on the site,its the least deliberately difficult version will find of deep breathing exercise probably,a old ld-pyschologist of mine tried teaching DBE but was unable to learn it,aparently its a very good coping strategy for many different issues though.
the best thing to remember is that have got just as much right to be out there as those staring,dont over anaylize their stare and think theyre being judgemental,and if they are well f them then.
dont look away from a chavs/scallies stare if possible,stare them down by focusing on a part near the eyes so that the rest blurs away,chavs will target those who look away from their stares but they get intimidated by people who refuse to give in to their BS.
from own experience,woud not recognise individuals on a street as am not able to percieve people in the same way as most,nor scan the environment,but having had a lifetime of serious bullying and attacks from living in a mega chav enriched part of manchester [they even attacked mum all the time as well and she is a pensioner almost near dwarfism size], am able to stare the scum down with every 'ret*d' or laugh and stare they give and theyre welcome if they want to sort it out with their fists,but funily enough not one of them has ever had the guts.
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