Anger Over the Little Things

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This might seem completely trivial and stupid to some, but I'm so angry right now. My mother just murdered a spider with some Bleach cleaner, instead of waiting for TWO seconds for me to get a box to put it in. All she had to do was WAIT but she didn't and she just killed it, and I'm really upset. I could have saved it but she didn't even give it a chance!! ! She just killed it and shrugged her shoulders and moves on, and I'm so angry, and almost in tears because I'm thinking how can I come from such a heartless, uncaring, human being???

I get angry over random little things like this....any of you have the same issue?

I have a fear of spiders so I can't just box it and let it go. Maybe your mother doesn't have a fear and just hate them but I'm really scared of them.

Things that have been getting me angry is when my mum acts like I should know better or she calls people with a disability weird. Or when she doesn't rinse her dishes or doesn't care that I can barely walk in a straight line.

Yeah, very angry today.

I'm seeing my sister tomorrow. She's the only person I've lashed out at because she purposely likes to trigger my meltdowns. So fun times tomorrow.

Oh gosh, good luck tomorrow....=\ And ugh....my mom call EVERYONE weird....she loves to label people...if they're even the slightest bit different, or unique, she immediately labels them weird....or abnormal....or unnatural. What is WRONG with people?!

i don't see the point in killing spiders - they are on our side - they kill nuisance insects for us

I get angry over little everyday things all the time. I try to hide it, but it's becoming increasingly difficult to do so. I wish I weren't so easily annoyed.

I like daddy long legs or whatever their real name is. But the big brown long ones are so creepy. I have a intense fear of them.
I was bitten by a spider when I was 5. Non-venomous but things like that just stay with me.

I suppose it's different in the UK where no spider can possible harm you. As for daddy long legs or crane flies / leather-jackets - they scare the crap out of me. it's the thought of them flying into my face with their long legs. i even prefer wasps to them

I'm the same way. I feel like I'm always on edge. I have to try not to blow up at people all the time. I do pretty well but it's a constant struggle.

I'm still getting over the insensitive remark that my mum gave me, when I told her that Pete Quaife passed away. "They're old. People don't live for ever!" I feel this need to barrel my way through life now, just because of that heartless response that she gave me. I don't stop for anything. If I'm not rushing through my life, job or chores, I'm posting exessively on WP to keep my mind busy. It makes me wonder how such an ice cube managed to push me out of her.

Yes I do get angry over little thing-had a major meltdown one time when my zipper on my coat broke.