love anxiety

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Hi soulmates,

once when I fell in love with a girl, I had the following problem: I felt helpless, because i loved her so much, and i knew that my social skills are not so perfect, she liked me also, but i feared that she would get together with someone else once, and that i would then suffer a lot. I feared that without any reason, the only reason was that this once happened to me, when i fell in love before. This one got together with someone else and i suffered alot.

But this girl liked me and when she showed that she liked me, i always was soo happy, but at the same time my fear grew even more, that i will lose her.

Can anyone tell me if he also had this phenomenon, or maybe tell how this is called in correct terms?

Thanks alot,
Anton

I've always experienced greater levels of anxiety with regard to women I have a romantic interest in than with regard to "normal" social interactions.