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I'm so f*****g pissed right now. Someone just violated every f*****g right in the book. Yes, I have been vegan for a while now, few years. I was never an ethical vegan. I was a medical vegan. But how the hell am I suppose to know what I'm allergic too if I don't eat certain food groups? So, I had my first egg sandwich in over a few years. And will slowly eat just chicken, if I don't break out I'm not allergic to it. I cannot go on to not eating something without first understanding why I can't eat it.
Well my mom and I have kind of gotten closer since I became vegan. And lo and behold, my own sister...my very sister has to tell my mom I ate an egg sandwich and my plans for my body. My sister had no right to tell my mom what I was doing. She had no right to do in the secrecy of a closed door, behind my back.

My mom has slowly become less and less active with my family. My sister and her are really close because my mom is on facebook and my sister went onto facebook to reach out to her own mom. My mom and I are different in our thoughts and beliefs. My mom always thinks I'm sort of liar, she laughed when I tried to tell her I thought I was not straight or bisexual, but actually gay. She's mocked me a long time ago when I told her I do have some autistic traits. So being vegan meant that at least I had some way of connecting, even if she may be ethical and I may be well medical vegan. And my sister has go and ruin, and sour our relationship even further by telling my mom about what I did.

So, I'm not allowed to know what I'm allergic to? So I'm not allowed to explore in what realms of my diet I can consume and can't?

Now, my mom thinks I am probably a liar or I lost her trust in some way. How dare my sister do this. How dare she. Right now, I'm beyond angry. To the point that if I don't write this out, I will snap my sister's neck.

I already lost connection with my mom. And now there is a distance created even further due to a sister who can't shut the f**k up. And whine and complain about crap.

Basically I have learned I have no right to my own body

could you not have had an allergy test?