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22 Feb 2011, 11:06 am

I have been told i look 'angry' more often than not.

Do you think looking angry can also have a negetive impact on our lives as aspies?



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22 Feb 2011, 11:07 am

Yes.
Lots of people's default face is angry.
Mine is just vacant.
Although, it's not exclusive to aspies.



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22 Feb 2011, 11:13 am

I'm told I look angry a lot. But much of that time I'm just churning away in my thoughts. It causes problems because it get misinterpreted.


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22 Feb 2011, 11:55 am

I know wavefreak its really awkward esspecially in social settings and you don't realising your doing it either.



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22 Feb 2011, 7:45 pm

My default expression is "a bit annoyed", but it has nothing to do with what's going on behind it.


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22 Feb 2011, 7:48 pm

Jamesy wrote:
I have been told i look 'angry' more often than not.

Do you think looking angry can also have a negetive impact on our lives as aspies?

I've been told I look angry, too.

It can have a negative impact. I try to smile more than I used to.



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22 Feb 2011, 7:49 pm

My friends call it a perma scowl and I have it all the time. Mostly because I am angry most of the time.



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22 Feb 2011, 7:51 pm

I have 'the psycho look', 'the depressed look' and 'the stoned look'. They are my 3 default expressions. I do get people telling me to 'cheer up' a lot of the time for no apparant reason.


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22 Feb 2011, 7:56 pm

rabbitears wrote:
I have 'the psycho look', 'the depressed look' and 'the stoned look'. They are my 3 default expressions. I do get people telling me to 'cheer up' a lot of the time for no apparant reason.


It is because you look depressed. I get this a lot as well. It actually is the most frustrating thing I have to deal with while working. It makes me want to hit people I wish they would just mind there own bussiness. What is the worst thing about it is regardless of if I am angry or not why do people have to but in. It is not like I am going to tell a stranger what is going on with me anyway. Dumb asses.



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22 Feb 2011, 7:57 pm

I've had people tell me a lot that I look annoyed or something, although it's only true half the time. :P

RabbiTears: Not sure what a "psycho look" would look like. :huh:



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22 Feb 2011, 7:57 pm

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'the stoned look'
Yeah, that. My family has an annoying habit of breaking me out of a nice & relaxing 50' stare by waving a hand in my face and asking if anyone's in.
Oh, how we laughed... :evil:


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22 Feb 2011, 7:58 pm

dunbots wrote:
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:lmao: Oivey, already - that's funny!


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22 Feb 2011, 8:00 pm

I usually have a dower expression on my face, and people are constantly asking me if I'm sad and they keep telling me to cheer up.


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22 Feb 2011, 8:01 pm

dunbots wrote:
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You just made me see my name in a completely different way, it just made me think of a Rabbi crying. I'd never thought of it that way before. :lol:

Basically, the 'Psycho look' just looks furious yet somewhat 'cold' and vacant, quite hard to explain I guess.


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22 Feb 2011, 8:02 pm

My wife always thinks I am angry whenever I am reading or thinking. Because I spend 95% percent of my waking hours reading or thinking, it doesn't turn out well.

I do look happy when I am smiling, or telling a joke, or eating.

But If I am in regular mode, I look angry.

I think a lot of people hate me because of it.

If they don't say anything about it, I don't care.

If they have a problem with it, f k em.



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22 Feb 2011, 8:04 pm

Cornflake wrote:
dunbots wrote:
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:lmao: Oivey, already - that's funny!

I always think of the double meaning of his name whenever I see it, so I had to say it at least once somewhere. :lol:



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