Specific social interacion problems to work on- ideas please

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emmasma
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09 Mar 2011, 11:16 pm

I want to work on my social interactions (mostly at work because I don't have friends). I want to concentrate on one thing at a time, for a few days or a week, and need some ideas for "assignments"

Hear are some examples I thought of;

*don't over explain things all the time
* don't always turn the conversation back to myself
* work on giving and accepting compliments
* start two unnecessary conversations per day (smalltalk)

Also, I was thinking about starting a forum so that others could work on the tasks with me and we could share our experiences, kindof like a group therapy type of thing but with no therapist. Would anyone be interested in this sort of thing?



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09 Mar 2011, 11:57 pm

you could make it an AS "tips and tricks" thread- anybody can post new ideas and questions about this.



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10 Mar 2011, 12:28 am

emmasma wrote:
I want to work on my social interactions (mostly at work because I don't have friends). I want to concentrate on one thing at a time, for a few days or a week, and need some ideas for "assignments"

Hear are some examples I thought of;

*don't over explain things all the time
* don't always turn the conversation back to myself
* work on giving and accepting compliments
* start two unnecessary conversations per day (smalltalk)

Also, I was thinking about starting a forum so that others could work on the tasks with me and we could share our experiences, kindof like a group therapy type of thing but with no therapist. Would anyone be interested in this sort of thing?


I think that since you are aware of these problems and have resolved to address them, you will be met with some degree of success.

I wish you luck, though I don't think you need it.



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10 Mar 2011, 2:04 am

I think that since you are aware of these problems and have resolved to address them, you will be met with some degree of success.

I wish you luck, though I don't think you need it.[/quote]

Unfortunately I am 32 and have been aware of my problems for a long time. I think it is time to work. I am excited about it, but I'm a bit drunk too so we will see. Thanx for the luck ;)



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10 Mar 2011, 6:20 am

You can practice by welcoming folks to this forum.



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10 Mar 2011, 9:23 am

Good idea, I do this already. Struggling not to turn conversations back to me and not interrupting.



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10 Mar 2011, 10:36 am

[/quote]You can practice by welcoming folks to this forum.

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Xenia wrote:
Good idea, I do this already. Struggling not to turn conversations back to me and not interrupting.

That is a good idea to welcome people to the forum. I am having a hard time saying it without turning the conversation back to myself and over explaining how awkward that is for me.
Also complimenting people on good posts would be good.