Dasaniman wrote:
He had half a dozen girlfriends, do you know any aspies who are playboys like this? i dont think there is even one!
A male aspie is lucky to get one girlfriend and they hold on to them for dear life usually from what i could see.
He also once hopped off his bike at the sound of a violin, and dashed upstairs into the woman's house and shouted gleefully "Keep playing!!"
I don't know that he had AS but he certainly wasn't typical.
I don't think it's accurate to think that all men with AS have trouble getting women though. A lot of men with social issues feel more comfortable around women than men and AS is not synonymous with social anxiety necessarily.
I think it might be that getting women is a lot easier than many of the guys on here perceive it to be and it's their own fears of getting rejected that make it so difficult. Many of them cannot bring themselves to even approach a woman and when they do, it's an emotional, defining moment in life from which they have great difficulty recovering if it does not go the way they had hopes.
There are men out there who perceive approaching women entirely differently.
I suppose one can liken it to gambling. Some people who like money fear losing $5 more than gaining $100 so they don't gamble. To others, the prospect of winning $100 is far more powerful than the thought of losing $5, so they do gamble and get a thrill in the process of doing it. When they lose, the emotional impact is small because the $5 was so insignificant to them relative to the potential reward.
I believe Albert Einstein fell into the latter category. He liked women. He liked talking to women even just for the sake of talking to them and if one should reject him, it wasn't a big deal, he would just move on to the next.