things just keep getting worse!! !! !! !!

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I have a so called best freind who use to come over my house all the time ( i live alone). he recently got a girlfreind now i don't see him anymore he totaly ignores me.
not just that. I met a couple of (NT's) My other freind neighbours things were going great (me not being left out ect). But i have a feeling things are changing for the worse.

WTF should i do?

I think it just depends on his situation as far as relationships. If he's a semi-shy type and hasn't had a girlfriend in a long time or ever I've seen this happen here and there. My roommate's friend he grew up with nextdoor won't even call, won't talk to him, and it not to be taken personally either - he won't even spend time with his own dad.

I'm guessing though you know what qualities caused you to click as friends, if you don't know for sure just think about it, I'm sure you'll figure it out and I'm sure you'll figure out how to find those qualities in other people. Once you do that you'll probably sooner or later meet someone who'll bring you into their group of friends and once you have about 3 or 4 your good - even if you aren't a clingy person it still helps to be busy but at the same time be there to help em with a move, when a car breaks down, or whatever if they need you and you know they're the types who are good to reciprocate.

it an't being an aspie that's for sure it's like playing the game of life on ultra-hard i tell you what i didn;t choose that setting

Yeah i see your point i do have back up freinds (to good ones) twice my age they seem to care for me but they live too far away too see often. I live in a rural area so as for making freinds with other aspies chances are slim to nill