hi there,
I have fit the AS criteria, and wondered alot what "asperger" really is, and so far came to the solution that AS is really mainly related to a much more sensitive nervous system. This leads also to a different development of social skills starting at early age, and thus have have those bad social skills if not trained accordingly.
I feel sure: AS is just a highly sensitive nervous system. "sensitive" is a quantitave term, so its hard to compare, this complicates the thing where to say when is it HSP and when not, but not matter about that, AS is about highly sensitive people, and the root of their social problems lies in that.
thanks,
anton