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Steve_Cory
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30 Jul 2006, 11:31 am

I do not think I am racist, but sometimes I worry myself.

I don't find women from other races attractive at all, unless they are exceptionally good-looking by any standard. Mostly I find white women attractive. (don't really like blondes, though, mostly dark-brown hair and red hair sometimes)

Does this have something to do with AS? Picking one race/culture and sticking with it? I mean yes, there are some pretty black women to me, but very few. Yes, there are some pretty hispanic woment to me, but very few. etc.

Could anyone explain this to me?



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30 Jul 2006, 11:44 am

i don think it makes you racist.
i think that a lot of japanese women are real pretty as are a lot of black women and i love hispanic women, as well as white gals...
but for you, you just prolly prefer the sameness of white gals....becaiuse your aspie?
no i dont tink so, just because oru you.
whenever you have to ask "am i racist" then your not.
reacist peoplke know eough to never have to ask.



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30 Jul 2006, 12:06 pm

This does not make you a racist. Boys have their own interests of girls.



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30 Jul 2006, 12:17 pm

No its not racist. Its natural that you would find a higher percent of your own race
more attractive. On another note I find its hard to judge the age of other races. I'm
shocked to find many black women are much older than I thought.



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30 Jul 2006, 12:41 pm

No, it doesn't make you racist.

Most people choose to date within their own race, me inclusively. Just because you prefer not to date outside your race, you're not automatically a racist. It's a preference for your own kind, not hate for those who are different.



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30 Jul 2006, 2:21 pm

It may sound like you're racist, but since you have certain preferences of women, you are not.


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30 Jul 2006, 2:48 pm

I have found that I am only attracted to people of the opposite gender. Does that make me a sexist? :lol:

If everyone who was attracted to only certain kinds of people was called a racist, well, the Reverend Jesse Jackson would have his work cut out for him.



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30 Jul 2006, 3:12 pm

no it makes you heterosexual.



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30 Jul 2006, 3:16 pm

Am I a racist if I despise illegal immigrants sneaking in to the country, stealing our jobs and houses and pretending to be citizens of the UK? For All I know they could be terrorists.



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30 Jul 2006, 3:19 pm

it makes you borderline dude..the uk is the most politically correct country in the world..it allows these illegals in as it is a soft option, it is because of these relaxed immigaration tat makes britain...great britain.



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30 Jul 2006, 3:20 pm

soz I'm kinda slow. What do you mean by borderline?



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30 Jul 2006, 3:22 pm

ok like a good jedi turning to the dark side..your looking toward the dark side, it aint a good outlook dude.
ad it suggests that you are on the fence with regard to being called a racist, imho.



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30 Jul 2006, 3:24 pm

soz to you I cant help it. Everyones got there own opinions. My opinions are controversial so I'll best not mention my own views.



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30 Jul 2006, 5:56 pm

YUOR A RAISIST SCUMBAG AND I HOPPE YOU DYE IN A DICH!!!1111 ;)

No, it's not racist at all. It's really just about what you find attractive. Different people have different preferences, that's all.



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30 Jul 2006, 6:43 pm

Oh no, you're not racist. You just know what you like. Nothing wrong with that. :wink:

I'm a black girl who happens to find white men, particularly those from the Mediterranean, the most attractive. Yet I've only dated one white man so far...and he had a preference for black women. Some black women would probably think I'm "selling out" my race or whatever. But I think that's a bunch of bull. We are all human beings and whoever one chooses to date shouldn't matter to anyone else and is entirely up to the individual.


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31 Jul 2006, 4:18 am

Not unless you link physical attractiveness to what one's worth is. And if you do then you probably have more problems than racism :P