Poll: Is ASD/Aspergers Friendly offensive

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Is the term ASD/Aspergers Friendly offensive to you?
Poll ended at 15 Jun 2011, 11:44 am
Yes 4%  4%  [ 1 ]
No 57%  57%  [ 16 ]
Never thought about it before 39%  39%  [ 11 ]
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16 May 2011, 11:44 am

I received some feedback from an Aspie (parent of an Aspie as well) that Aspergers Friendly (i.e. implies inferiority for those on the Spectrum) was a pejorative term. Not sure how I felt about that and wanted to check in with you all.



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16 May 2011, 11:57 am

Don't understand what it means. What is ASD friendly? Libraries are ASD friendly, nice and quiet and no talking expected

Dunno if that is what you mean though :wink:



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16 May 2011, 12:02 pm

I think for as long as we're treat as inferior I'd rather have a place openly refer to itself as 'Asperger's Friendly' than have a place totally ignorant to Asperger's and others on the spectrum. Letting people on the spectrum know they're not going to be treat like freaks or stupid can make us feel more secure and comfortable that we can openly say if we're experiencing any problems.

Although with that said being 'Asperger's Friendly' itself is not always good, I'm being bombarded with forced support...I don't think I need it and I resent the implication that I need support just because I'm an aspie - it would be far nicer if people were accepting/tolerant of us and treated us like everyone else, nothing special, unless/until we ask for support.

Until that happens I don't think a place or group is being offensive by being pro-active in making sure we're okay.


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16 May 2011, 12:06 pm

While I remain open to hearing further arguments as to the term's offensiveness, I feel I could easily find a jucier target for my outrage. I'll prefer aware and friendly to ignorant and hostile, regardless.

I recently heard Ricky Gervais say: "Just because you're offended, doesn't make you right."



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16 May 2011, 12:10 pm

I don't see what's so offensive about it. ASD-friendly is a good term to describe places/things that are made so as not to confuse or overwhelm people with ASDs. Of course it's likely enough that any given person will still need adjustments; but the really big things--visual clutter, fluorescent lighting, unneeded noise--can still be removed.


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16 May 2011, 12:41 pm

That's not offensive to me at all. In fact, I actually kind of like that term.



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16 May 2011, 1:08 pm

Greetings, fellow catperson!

I do not find the term offensive at all. I am an Aspie and parent of a probable Aspie (she's going through the diagnostic process now), and anything that can be done to make our environment better for us is fine by me :)

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16 May 2011, 1:36 pm

No, I am not offended by the term "ASD/Aspie Friendly". If it makes things easier for me, all the better.



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16 May 2011, 3:07 pm

I'm not offended by that term. I'll go for anything that will help me out.


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16 May 2011, 4:04 pm

"User friendly" design, AKA "ergonomics" is an engineering discipline that takes into account the needs of the human body when designing products. The use of the term "friendly" is not indicative of a perception, I'd say it is more a connotation of an inviting or facilitating environment.


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16 May 2011, 4:16 pm

I think I'm very ASD-friendly and I'm not the least bit offensive.


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16 May 2011, 5:01 pm

I wasn't sure what it meant. Now that I know, I do not find it offensive, nor do I understand why someone would.



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16 May 2011, 5:10 pm

I don't see how that could be interpreted as offensive, unless one considered "Asperger's" itself to be a degrading or shameful term. It's not like saying, "weirdo friendly" or something.