Chummy wrote:
yea that's the problem... They alienate me. I am an outsider. And those so called "friends" even made a remark about how stupid I am for being an outsider.
Remarking that someone is stupid is rude regardless of the context, if someone says that something was a stupid action it is less rude and depends on context. If they make you an outsider on purpose and comment on it saying that you were stupid for something they did, it is very rude on their part. If they don't intend to exclude you, it's sad but less rude.
Do they seek you out? If they do, they're not trying to exclude you on purpose and probably have no idea that you feel excluded. If they don't seek you out, they could be false friends so it's a good idea to figure out if they are real or false friends if they don't seek you out.
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