Was my behavior inappropriate?

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05 Jun 2011, 3:43 pm

I like vacationing in the bahamas but yet, I like to decorate my speech with the F word but some of the locals got peeved. What was so bad about me using the F word while talking?

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05 Jun 2011, 3:46 pm

It was your useage of bad language I believe. Also, you're not supposed to write posts about locked threads. I'd report this but I can't be bothered :cry:

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05 Jun 2011, 3:48 pm

Alright, seriously? I think you're taking this too far. Are you trying to get banned or something?

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05 Jun 2011, 3:48 pm

Edit: You've changed your post - good.
I'm thus changing mine to prevent drama, just remember what was said.

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05 Jun 2011, 3:50 pm

Whoops, sorry about that. Sometimes I'm blind to my own blind spots.

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05 Jun 2011, 3:57 pm

SammichEater wrote:

Alright, seriously? I think you're taking this too far. Are you trying to get banned or something?

It was an honest question. Sometimes I wonder if this "blindness" of mine is something else other than AS in origin when I'm just trying to get an honest assessment of what makes certain behaviors of mine inappropriate. It seems hard to believe it'd just be using foul language because everyone uses it, and I doubt the bahamas is one giant island of daycare.

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05 Jun 2011, 5:02 pm

weird post is weird.

we're not going to tell you what you want to hear. if you disagree with a diagnosis, find another professional for a second opinion. we are not specialists.

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05 Jun 2011, 6:38 pm

I don't think people should freak out over the word f**k. Words are words!

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05 Jun 2011, 6:59 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

weird post is weird.

we're not going to tell you what you want to hear. if you disagree with a diagnosis, find another professional for a second opinion. we are not specialists.

This.

It might do you good to see a professional and get assessed if at all possible. If not, at least go over your difficulties and work out what they might be.

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05 Jun 2011, 7:18 pm

You should understand now, your buddy sent me a PM, and I responded, and hopefully he's passed it on. I didn't really think I'd have to explain this:

swbluto wrote:

And, if one is an a**hole and has aspergers, than that'd make them doubly AS, right? One for having Aspergers Syndrome and one for having the a**hole Syndrome. Hey, that'd make one the paragon of AS.

Think before presenting us with any more of your nuggets of wisdom.

And think before making any more unsolicited, wildly speculative proclamations about anyone's diagnostic status here. It is not helpful. It is not wanted. It offends, it hurts. You know that now, so there's no excuse. Any more will be interpreted as deliberately provocative.

If someone asks for your opinion on their diagnostic status, then by all means offer it. Without being offensive about it.

Wrong Planet is a support site for people with Asperger's syndrome and those who care about them.

I feel I've given you a series of loud warnings now that you can't possibly fail to heed.