OJani wrote:
I would consider it a step forward. Thinking about plotlines instead of women beyond reach is a healthy move in my opinion.
In my case, I don't remember a time I had to suppress one of my unwanted interests, but there are examples of replacing less productive ones with more productive ones, and vice versa.

(I still hold the opinion that sticking to a suitable mate will eventually resolve your problem)
That's the thing...the women I fantasize about, most of the time, would not be out of reach for me. I'm a pretty good looking guy...tall, exercise, decent looking face...just have the nerdy/asperger stuff. I call myself Niles on here for a reason. I'm a lot like him, a stiff, white, yet entertaining nerdy guy.
Sure, I like cute women and like nice figures, but in no way like playmates or models or Kardashian types or anything.
My social skills and self-esteem just get in the way of me trying.
Either way...this movie stuff is getting addictive. i watched 6 movies yesterday.