Does this statement apply to you???

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27 Jun 2011, 2:59 am

"I like who I am, but I don't like that people who I want to like me, do not like me"

That is pretty much my life, in a nutshell. This statement relates more to women, than anyone. I am a very unhappy man. Not unhappy with myself, but in how others (women especially) just cannot accept or like me for who I am.

In a more evolved, better world, I picture women (and people) liking me for my differences, instead of being repulsed by them.

Does anyone else have this little fantasy? It's just sad we live ion a world so ignorant, so phony. It's almost unbelievable to me at times. I just can't "accept it" like everyone says to. Why are people so dumb? So ignorant?

*sigh* :cry:

Tadpole
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27 Jun 2011, 3:14 am

I’m sorry but that is a really childish attitude.
If one person doesn’t like you, that’s their problem, even if three people don’t like you, but the rest do, then there is clearly something wrong with them, but if no-one likes you, then there is something wrong with your attitude.

I had no real friends until I had this pointed out to me, (I was on an Outward Bound course in Wales) and I was accused of being stuck up and arrogant. It was not until it was pointed out to me that I expected everyone (70+ teen age boys) to change to fit in with my particular personality. I learnt to come halfway towards them, and most of them were more than willing to come halfway to meet me. I left with fond memories of the people I shared three week hiking, canoeing sailing, and the like.
Since then I am willing to go halfway towards making friends. And it is only after that initial move on my part toward compromise, that I consider righting people off if they do not or are not willing to compromise. It’s not easy, and you will be rebuffed and for wont of a better word hurt (emotionally) but at least you’ll not be alone.

Tayribeiro
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27 Jun 2011, 3:15 am

I believe this statement applies to me at some points in my life.... its hard sometimes...

johnnydangerous
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27 Jun 2011, 3:59 am

Tadpole wrote:

You are a troll. F off.

Tadpole
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27 Jun 2011, 4:02 am

johnnydangerous wrote:

Tadpole wrote:

You are a troll. F off.

Funny boy, I was thinking exactly the same about you, but you've give me more evidence/proof of your trollish nature.
And if you’ve not got the balls to use adult words, please don’t.

johnnydangerous
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27 Jun 2011, 4:12 am

Tadpole wrote:

johnnydangerous wrote:

Tadpole wrote:

You are a troll. F off.

Funny boy, I was thinking exactly the same about you, but you've give me more evidence/proof of your trollish nature.
And if you’ve not got the balls to use adult words, please don’t.

Why don't you reply to my message in the other thread. Oh wait, you can't because I put you in your place and exposed you for the idiot you are.

What adult words are you reffering to, little boy? Mommy needs to disconnect your computer. Don't talk about balls over your keyboard, little boy. Internet tough guys like yourself do not impress anyone.

You have 50 something posts. And most of them are GARBAGE like the ones you've posted on this thread. You are in no position to be calling anyone out as a troll, TROLL.

Now run along, before I own you again like I did in the other thread.

Tadpole
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27 Jun 2011, 4:24 am

johnnydangerous wrote:

Tadpole wrote:

johnnydangerous wrote:

Tadpole wrote:

You are a troll. F off.

Funny boy, I was thinking exactly the same about you, but you've give me more evidence/proof of your trollish nature.
And if you’ve not got the balls to use adult words, please don’t.

Why don't you reply to my message in the other thread. Oh wait, you can't because I put you in your place and exposed you for the idiot you are.

What adult words are you reffering to, little boy? Mommy needs to disconnect your computer. Don't talk about balls over your keyboard, little boy. Internet tough guys like yourself do not impress anyone.

Now run along, before I own you again like I did in the other thread.

What other thread? You cannot expect me to keep track of the insistent chattering of minor unimportant kindergarteners. As for owning me you could not outthink the label on your tighty whities, let alone a grown person, the only thing you’ll out think is your one and only invisible friend and his IQ is twice what yours is. Neither get in to double digits

johnnydangerous
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27 Jun 2011, 4:26 am

By the way, tadpole, there is a difference between people LIKING YOU and being able to MAKE FRIENDS.

Once again, YOU FAIL to comprehend my post, just like you FAILED in the other thread.

When you grow up though, you'll understand better. So don't sweat it. Goodnight.

johnnydangerous
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27 Jun 2011, 4:30 am

Tadpole wrote:

johnnydangerous wrote:

Tadpole wrote:

johnnydangerous wrote:

Tadpole wrote:

You are a troll. F off.

Funny boy, I was thinking exactly the same about you, but you've give me more evidence/proof of your trollish nature.
And if you’ve not got the balls to use adult words, please don’t.

Why don't you reply to my message in the other thread. Oh wait, you can't because I put you in your place and exposed you for the idiot you are.

What adult words are you reffering to, little boy? Mommy needs to disconnect your computer. Don't talk about balls over your keyboard, little boy. Internet tough guys like yourself do not impress anyone.

Now run along, before I own you again like I did in the other thread.

Dude you have 50 something posts and you are following me around on every thread I start/comment on. Now all of a sudden you have amnesia?

And to top it off, you're talking about my underwear now. Can anyone say "hairdresser waiting to happen"?

Find a new therapist. The one you're seeing isn't working.

Tadpole
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27 Jun 2011, 4:32 am

johnnydangerous wrote:

If you want people to be able to comprehend your posts try writing them in a way that people understand them, I know that is hard for you to understand but I guess not being allowed to practice English on anything sharper than a crayon make it hard to get by in an adult world. Using an unnecessary ‘big ‘word in place of simple words does not make you clever.

johnnydangerous
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27 Jun 2011, 4:43 am

Tadpole wrote:

johnnydangerous wrote:

I'll try to use "small" words from now on tadpole, just for you. I didn't realize big words were too much for you to handle. I truly do apologize.

If I didn't understand big words, I'd be as angry as you are too. It's ok, I don't take you insults personally.

You seem to be the only poster who is not able to comprehend my threads, by the way. That's usually the first clue that the problem is you, and not me, sonny boy.

sonny boy is your new name, by the way. You are no longer tadpole. You are now known as my son, because I own you.

I'm going to bed now, sonny boy. Goodnight, sonny boy.

Tadpole
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27 Jun 2011, 4:46 am

Wow, I’d forgotten all about that post, was it so unimportant to you to claim a win, if so you have it. With my blessing.
I said my piece. I don’t need to have the last word on something as meaningless as you ranting on about a subject that is not relevant to 99% of my life.
I am sensing a theme with your posts, and what with your clear anger management problems and your lack of impulse control. I would suggest applying for support from professionals. I don’t think that there would be any problems getting extra help , I’d say it would be fairly easy to show them the extent of your problem, just to show them a few of your posts on this board . I’m sure they will be able to find money to help you.
I hope that you feel better soon
Regards
Tadpole

Edit to add
PM from Johhny
From: johnnydangerous
To: Tadpole
Posted: Mon Jun 27, 2011 10:35 am
Subject: Hey dummy
Stop following me around and thinking about me in my underwear. I'm not gay dude, sorry. Thanks a lot.

I think you are protesting way to much

swbluto
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27 Jun 2011, 8:51 am

johnnydangerous wrote:

Tadpole wrote:

You are a troll. F off.

I'm sure being neurotypical helped with the "Come half way towards them" part.

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27 Jun 2011, 9:09 am

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