Do you get the urge to do/say something characteristic of AS, then realise you shouldn't say it even though it gnaws away at you, maybe even for the rest of the day? I find if someone spells incorrectly, states an incorrect or misapplied/inappropriate context fact, makes an illogical argument (usually confusing correlation and causation, non-sequitur, post hoc ergo propter hoc, etc), or pronounces a word incorrectly, I feel I HAVE to correct them and I don't understand why they don't like it (I would want to know if I said something wrong so I could be right in future), I just learned after doing it for years as a child until just before I was a teen that people don't like it, so unless I'm in a group with people who I'm comfortable with who understand my personality, I won't do it.
Does this happen to you? Is it something NTs do anyway; is that why they can socialise easily? Are they carrying around this social stress to discharge later?