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14 Jul 2011, 8:59 pm

my fear of peoples getting bad....i cant do things i want..like go downstairs to get my dog because my brothers and sister are there.

anyone have this fear?



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14 Jul 2011, 9:18 pm

Not anymore, since my dad was kicked out five years ago. :roll:


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14 Jul 2011, 9:19 pm

Sometimes I have something similar, where I will avoid going to any place where I might potentially meet people. For example, when I lived in a dormitory (which was hell, by the way), I would sometimes wait to go out until everyone was gone. If there was someone outside my door, I wouldn't go out. Sometimes this was a problem when I needed to go to the bathroom.

I should add that the fear has nothing to do with being being judged. I don't particularly care what they think. I just know that I really don't feel like dealing with anyone or having anyone talk to me. It's strange. Sometimes I can handle social stuff, sometimes I can't. When I don't feel like I can handle it, I avoid people at all costs.


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14 Jul 2011, 9:43 pm

syrella wrote:
Sometimes I have something similar, where I will avoid going to any place where I might potentially meet people. For example, when I lived in a dormitory (which was hell, by the way), I would sometimes wait to go out until everyone was gone. If there was someone outside my door, I wouldn't go out. Sometimes this was a problem when I needed to go to the bathroom.

I should add that the fear has nothing to do with being being judged. I don't particularly care what they think. I just know that I really don't feel like dealing with anyone or having anyone talk to me. It's strange. Sometimes I can handle social stuff, sometimes I can't. When I don't feel like I can handle it, I avoid people at all costs.


Exactly. I wouldn't call it a fear, I just don't want to talk to people sometimes.


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14 Jul 2011, 9:49 pm

Yes. I can't leave my house without my bearded dragon. I stay in my bedroom like 98% of the day and really only come out to use the bathroom. It used to bother my parents and my father was always asking when I was going to come out of the "batcave" but now I think they just accept it. I stay out the the way when kids are around and one time refused to come out of the car because there were toddlers running around. I hate kids and would not hesitate to hurt them physicaly if they would not leave me alone. My neice learned the hard way not to do that stupid "I'm not touching you" game with me unless she wanted to get smacked or sometimes even bit. I don't even want to interact with my own family. My parents say I was always paranoif of other people, even as a kid. I think it's just getting worse.


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14 Jul 2011, 9:55 pm

Yes I do have this fear especially when my routine is changed eg. going to uni on a regular basis/ busy with uni work to uni holidays, no need to anywhere. I supsect I have social anxiety sometimes :S



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14 Jul 2011, 9:58 pm

Dunno if it's a fear, but I will shut myself in my room when people come over, especially if they have kids. Sometimes I will go without food or the bathroom for hours until they leave because I just can't face them. Besides, they never come to see me, so why does it matter if I don't see them?



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15 Jul 2011, 12:17 am

I wouldn't say it's a fear, but like some people said I just don't wanna sociallize sometimes, and I am very picky with people! I don't even like some family members! I always had anxiety when too much was going on at once! I love my brother and sister in-law, but when they finally moved out I was super happy because I was very uncomfortable around my brother, and the house was too crowded and noisy!


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03 Jul 2012, 4:48 am

I have a fear of people because I always think they're vampires! lol I'm only kidding! I'm actually doing quite better with people!!


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03 Jul 2012, 7:06 am

I used to be attacked without provocation at school... and the fear persists. Even today, meeting groups of students makes me nervous. I almost expect them to jump at me 8O



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03 Jul 2012, 9:38 am

Tamsin wrote:
Dunno if it's a fear, but I will shut myself in my room when people come over, especially if they have kids. Sometimes I will go without food or the bathroom for hours until they leave because I just can't face them. Besides, they never come to see me, so why does it matter if I don't see them?


I've been accused of being controlling and bitter due to this.


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03 Jul 2012, 9:54 am

I purposefully plan my life around avoiding social situations in general, unless they are completely necessary.

I also sympathise with those who go to their room when visitors are about, it's what I do whenever I have the opportunity. Unfortunately, my parents don't find me being antisocial very "polite" and will often force me to remain downstairs, just for "fun" :roll: At least my dogs will always sit by me so I have a distraction.


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