emp wrote:
Pug wrote:
Oh no, I don't have ADD at all. Just poblems to focus on things I don't find interesting. You see, if I read books I really like, I can manage to concentrate, or with really good computergames or so, sporting, tv, radio...it's just, if I'm not interested, I can't in any way concentrate.
Sounds like you need to improve your self-discipline. Unfortunately that can be quite challenging to do. You have to be really determined to improve your self-discipline, and force yourself to concentrate on something for the length of time you decided you would. It is a valuable skill to learn.
I can focus myself easily on a mindless task like a physical task that I'm familiar with or even a mental task that doesn't take much of my mental faculties, like entering values in a computer form. That allows the rest of my mind to wander which it seems like it must do or I will go nutz. However, my current task is a creative problem solving one-- software engineering. Sitting there and focusing on that task is a herculian effort that's growing. I've been telling myself that I just lack discipline and it's destroying my self-esteem. It's bad enough that I realize I need to seek outside help.
Every moment of every day, my mind is raging about something. I'm so used to it that I haven't thought much of it until it's started to cause problems. I'll be having a very vivid dream and then wake up. Within a few seconds, my mind is right back to thinking deeply about whatever subject I was thinking about when I went to bed. Last night it was Asperger's Syndrome and this message board. Here I am at this message board again for the last 40 minutes since I woke up at 5:30. (Went to bed at 1am) Reading and posting on message boards on the few subjects that occupy my mind constantly is like using a relief valve.
From your statement, I would guess that you don't have some form of ADD yourself and you don't really understand it. It's like someone who doesn't have epilepsy telling someone who's having a seizure, "Just stop it. You lack self-discipline."