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12 Sep 2011, 12:20 am

Im just wondering if anyone is here without autism not to affend anyone i just find that its easyer to talk to people without it even though they say i have it myself...so im wondering if theres anyone out there that wants to talk that dosent have it?



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12 Sep 2011, 3:15 am

I am diagnosed with asperger's. But i find that i can get along with both neurotypical and aspies. Actually now that i think about it i find that i have not spoken to many aspies in real-life. If with any at all. My friend is neurotypical and we get along very fine.



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12 Sep 2011, 10:06 am

I am an Aspie but I don't have any problems relating to NTs. It all depends on the type of person - never whether they're mentally disabled or not. I've only met one Autistic in my life, and that was when I was 17. But I am quite an adaptable person - I can practically get along with anybody if only some will give me a chance. But, yes, all my life I've grown up in an NT family and went to mainstream school, so there was no escape from NTs, so I had to learn to get along one way or another.


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12 Sep 2011, 10:08 am

NT here :)



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12 Sep 2011, 12:13 pm

I'm neurotypical here, one neurotypical brother and one autistic brother, so I know all about this kind of thing.

Even I find some neurotypicals difficult to get along with. I know all neurotypicals seem alike to autistics, but we're not. We all have our moments too, and get angry at things, and even obsess over things. :)



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12 Sep 2011, 12:32 pm

For me it depends. I have a hard time relating to people in general, NT and aspie. I can relate to anyone but that depends on the person. So it be impossible for me to answer who do I relate to more, autistics or NTs.



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12 Sep 2011, 4:45 pm

I'm NT... but some of the students I work with who know me best say that I'm aspie... I think they're joking / only really commenting on the things they recognise of me from themselves. Still, I tend to get on better with aspies than NTs; aspies make more sense to me, and they seem to get on better with me at work than my NT colleagues do.
Aspies rock :) hehe



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13 Sep 2011, 1:30 am

Im aspie, Im probably borderline aspie/NT. Most of my friends are NT being that theres way more NTs out there. I can relate to both in different ways.



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13 Sep 2011, 8:52 pm

Im aspie, Im probably borderline aspie/NT. Most of my friends are NT being that theres way more NTs out there. I can relate to both in different ways.



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13 Sep 2011, 8:55 pm

Maybe I never was officially diagnosed, maybe I have a different disorder.......but a lot of the AS symptoms fit.



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13 Sep 2011, 9:08 pm

ADHD here. I'm still not sure about the autism, though it does help explain my pattern of socialization (or lack thereof). Some days I think I have Asperger's and other days I think that ADHD already explains everything.


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13 Sep 2011, 9:36 pm

I'm not sure what I am anymore, but I know I'm not a NT, that's for certain.


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14 Sep 2011, 12:19 am

Anxiety disorder/broader autism phenotype here. Fit the symptoms of AS perfectly as a kid...but not so much now. A few psychiatrists, including my current one, say that while I have traits of AS, I likely would not qualify for a diagnosis anymore. I have many NT friends, and have average social skills. Still, I'm here because of the traits that I still have (primarily obsessive thinking), and still have an interest in the autistic community at large.


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14 Sep 2011, 2:12 am

NT here, with a daughter with classic autism. I have alot of AS traits and sometimes i wonder, but I've never sought out a diagnosis



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14 Sep 2011, 11:58 am

I don't know consider myself to be autistic, but broader autism phenotype.



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14 Sep 2011, 11:31 pm

skonamis wrote:
I am diagnosed with asperger's. But i find that i can get along with both neurotypical and aspies. Actually now that i think about it i find that i have not spoken to many aspies in real-life. If with any at all. My friend is neurotypical and we get along very fine.
Its not getting along thats the problem Its they stay on a subject for to long. and its hard to exsplane.
Not that i hate them.