Would you want to take revenge...

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...and do they deserve it?

I always want revenge or at least vindication.

They do always deserve it, I won't go over the top on revenge for something small.

Frances

From people who treated you as second class citizen?

It depends on what you mean. If someone talks down to me or is rude to me, I get them back the same way. I'm rude back or treat them like they are stupid.

It depends on what I want revenge over.

An example is the other day I was in the grocery store. I had asked the cashier for cigarettes as well as the groceries I was buying. Because she had to walk several registers over to get them, the woman behind me who was also getting cigarettes told her what she wanted too, so the girl doesn't have to make two trips. I had a coupon for the brand that the woman behind me asked for, in my purse so I found it and gave it to her. She stared at it like she didn't know what it was. I told her, it's $4 off that carton that you just asked for. Give it to the cashier and you'll save $4. She just stared at it then said OK. Didn't even bother to say "thank you". So after a minute or so, I looked at her and said "You're welcome".

That's all the revenge someone needs to get toward a rude person, IMO.

What situations are you talking about?

Frances

If you are being treated like crap.

I consider my unwillingness to forgive people who do not deserve it my own form of revenge. They'll never see it that way, but that does not matter to me.

Yes, i do hate Nt's and i know 100% where are you coming from.

There are a lot of people out there all of them are NT's may I add whom i wish to get revenge on. I have a list.

Your questions disturb me. You are always asking things like "Do you hate NTs?", "Would you ever kill someone?"
I think you have a chip on your shoulder.

If you hate NT's just because they are different, and you want them to be hurt because of it then you are the same as a bully. You are also a bigot if you feel like that.

I've heard people complain about how we are treated as aspies then turn right back around and lump all NT's into the same catagory and want to make their lives hell. Did you forget that people, all people, NT's and aspies alike, have individual personalities?

Why is it ok for you to hate NT's because they are NT, without even meeting a particular one, but it's not ok for them to hate all aspies because we are aspie?

What I hate, is hypocrisy. On another thread where I had posted about being pro choice, the OP on this thread asked if I was an athiest or a pagan because of that and said that a Christian should have God as the center of their lives. The OP stated to be a Christian. Does hating NT's seem like something that someone would do if God is the center of their life? I'm Christian. Not as devout as I should be, but I am. Even I, lapsed Christian that I am, know that if God is the center of your life, you aren't going to be busy hating.

Recalculate some of this, is my suggestion.

Frances

Nope, I'm Christian and look at as "Vengeance is mine, thus saith the Lord." I figure God will deal with them however they need to be dealt with, as he knows all, and knows what punishment they truly deserve, he knows if they were just acting in ignorance or in genuine hatred, stuff I don't know. Besides, wasting your life in vengeance, is just that, wasting your life. Best thing to do is just try to move on, obviously try not to let the same person harm you in the same way again, but move on.

No, I don't hate NTs and I don't want to seek revenge.

To OliveOilMom: Even though I'm Pro-Life and you're Pro-Choice, I think that it's stupid that somebody asked you if you're an atheist because of your beliefs. Why can't people just mind their own business instead of trying to start arguments?

It would be like somebody presuming that I pop pills and ride on a scooter because I'm a Mod.